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Suggestions for attractive clothes wanted

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Grammaretto Tue 23-Jun-20 09:53:27

Does anyone have a favourite brand to recommend? I have been trying to be tempted by the clothes I see online but they don't even look nice on the pretty young models.

I have bought a few tops and bottoms from Debenhams and had to return half and a sleeveless frock sent in error from vera tucci.

I have put on weight over Lockdown and feel fat and old but a pretty summer dress which flatters, not too expensive would cheer me up..

I would normally try TKMax, Next or possibly M&S and John Lewis but all our shops are still closed in Scotland so it needs to be posted.

Grammaretto Sun 28-Jun-20 10:30:29

Alexa fake photo, I'm afraid. That was the seller's photo for her advert. It didn't look so orange there did it.
DH thinks I should wear it. (even though I looked like I'm stuffed into it) I suggested he wear it himself if he likes it so much.

When I shop for clothes, I take a bundle into the fitting room and sometimes get nothing. On-line is much harder . Surely everyone finds that?

Puzzler61 Sun 28-Jun-20 11:55:51

Oh what a disappointment Grammaretto. ?

Also remembered “Mistral” online. They have shops too so are reliable and everything.
If you like Seasalt you will like Mistral as they are similar.

GGumteenth Sat 04-Jul-20 11:44:56

Just bumping this as I just came back to look at many of the suggestion and thought others might find another look useful too.

Jonezone Sat 04-Jul-20 12:30:33

I didn’t wear dresses for years as I had never found any that suited me. I am 5ft 6ins tall, weigh 10.7 stone and wear a size 14. I have big boobs and hips. Basically I look like a sack of spuds tied up in the middle wearing the majority of dresses.

That all changed when I started cruising and decided that I needed to buy dresses. I basically spent a whole day with a friend going around shops and trying on different styles until - joy of joys - I found ‘my’ style. I can look slim, smart and elegant in my style - a knee length, shift or tunic dress - straight up and down, scoop neck, no v-necks as they make the boobs look like they’re round my waist (a decent, well fitting bra is essential). Preferably a bit loose fitting or stretchy as tight is uncomfortable.

This has made such a difference and I now own lots of dresses, both casual and formal. I buy most of them off eBay - as I know what to go for - and pay silly amounts, such as £10 for gorgeous things from Wallis, Monsoon, Per Una, Debenhams Collection etc.

If you buy something inexpensive off eBay and it doesn’t fit or suit you it is easy to resell. I’ve often done this and even made a small profit!

Just persevere and you will find a style that suits you

Jonezone Sat 04-Jul-20 12:42:06

A small addition to previous post re buying off eBay:

I always email the seller (ask seller a question) and ask whether the photos are true to colour, what is the chest width armpit to armpit and the length of the dress - in inches as I can’t be doing with metric. This is helpful in making the decision whether it is likely to fit or not.

Grammaretto Sat 04-Jul-20 12:56:04

I am an impulsive shopper Jonezone so I put in several bids up to a top limit on several things I quite liked on Ebay. It wasn't relevant to email the seller of each item.
There are as many different tastes, sizes and personalities as there are people.
I have had success in the past but maybe not for dresses. I have bought coats and jackets which don't need to fit so precisely.