Help! Going to a trendy bar/club - what to wear?!!!

Perfect to ensure people keep their distance

I’m seconding the long top and leggings option, heels if you’re comfortable wearing them. I’d avoid skirts or dresses and go for a dressy/casual but comfortable route, my absolute fear after doing it once is being overdressed - I think that’s more noticeable than choosing middle of the road.
Enjoy your night out!

Lolo81 I think that a short dress with leggings looks more modern than a long top/leggings.

As mentioned by a pp, I am also very fond of Palazzo pants with a longish sleeveless top and a very long overshirt preferably calf length. I wore a version of this to my son's wedding and this style is my failsafe go to.

Another go to is a pale grey and white silk one size fits all oversize top with sleeves that is well below the knee and looks great in summer with wide white linen trousers or narrow white ankle grazers, or in winter with black ankle grazers. It cost me £5 in a Lanzarote market and rolls up into the size of a hankie for travellung, without creasing.

I’d go for a loose fitting dress . Zara have lots. You’d be comfortable and fashionable

What exactly are palazzo pants someone?
If as I suspect they are baggy, I may resemble a Hobbit in them at 5’1”

Greeneyedgirl

What exactly are palazzo pants someone?
If as I suspect they are baggy, I may resemble a Hobbit in them at 5’1”

They are wide leg trousers but not like normal baggy trousers. X

Greeneyedgirl
I'm 5' and wear these. www.romanoriginals.co.uk/tropical-print-trouser-18013834

Tha main thing that sould be in your outfit - your confidence!
You have to feel yuorself as a queen and don't think about your extra weight.

For example jeanse with trendy white blouse can be suitable.
Add a belt and you will look fantastic!

What exactly are palazzo pants someone?

I think they're wide and baggy, Greeneyedgirl. Easy to catch your other heel in and make a dramatic entrance.