Thanks everyone for the suggestions. I have hazel eyes and a fairly warm skin colour, my hair did have warm tints with the sun which suited me. Awful photo attached.
The trouble is my hair is now dyed darkish brown, and I do not want to cut it all off. Recently I did the roots with a permanent Nice N Easy light caramel brown shade 6W, which on the grey has come out a lightish warm brown. After doing roots I applied to rest of head a bit later.
I believe I cannot lighten my hair now unless I use bleach or a hair colour remover, neither of which I fancy trying.
I think I will just keep touching up the roots with a light brown or even dark blond. Susy thanks I will try the semi next time.
I think honey blond highlights might look nice, but I do not want the expense of maintenance.
I’m a Pear/Apple - Part 5. Still going!!
Being asked for an honest opinion


