Is it just me?

I do wish people would stop being so holier than thou over this whole topic Why are you so uncomfortable about someone choosing to luxuriate in physical pleasures? Is it a hangover of Victorian prudery? Anyone who enjoys being touched and massaged must have low morals? No, I do not enjoy massages, but I fully understand why others do.

We (DH, DD and I) love spa days. The spas with swimming pools, jacuzzis, hot rooms, cold rooms, saunas, showers. We all love water play as much as any toddler and 2 or 3 times a year that is where we go, with lunch included, we have a great time and w are so relaxed at theend of it all

Presumably paying thousands of pounds to go on cruises or luxury holidays or buy a new car or whatever rocks your boat is OK. It is indulging in the pleasures of the flesh that causes this moral outrage.

Oh dear! My DD is 50 in the summer and as part of her birthday treats I have given her a spa day with her choice of treatments at a smart hotel in the Sussex countryside. I have given her a ticket for 2 and hoping she will ask me to accompany her.

I went on a short spa break not long after my breast cancer operation and it was wonderful. I benefited from the pampering and relaxation so much and would highly recommend it.

What a generous gift Whitewave.
I’m sure your DD will love it (I know mine would) and so will you if she asks you to go with her. ?
Along with the chance for relaxation it will be a super day for you ‘Girls’ to be together. ?

I've saved so much money doing my own colouring and not having my nails done. I think I would begrudge spending the money now.

Puzzler61

What a generous gift Whitewave.
I’m sure your DD will love it (I know mine would) and so will you if she asks you to go with her. ?
Along with the chance for relaxation it will be a super day for you ‘Girls’ to be together. ?

That’s what I’m hoping?? I shall be very gracious if she asks someone else though????

Of course. (It’s what we mum’s do) . Fingers crossed though.