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Where can I shop for clothes? Help!!

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StephLP Sat 14-Aug-21 14:53:25

Ages since we've been to a wedding. Looked forward to shopping for an outfit. Took the bus to our local city centre - and couldn't find a thing to wear! My go to shop would have been the large Debenhams store with all the decent brands but that has closed. Walked up to where another shop used to be - that had closed. M&S and Roman Originals just had lots of sale racks and nothing that looked right for a wedding. An hour later I took the bus home. Where do you 'ladies of a certain age' shop for smart clothes please?

Polarbear2 Sun 12-Sept-21 08:39:36

Have a google for independent shops near you. There’s a fabulous shop in my City for wedding outfits but you’d never know it was there unless someone told you. Looks very ordinary but once inside it’s incredible. And, at least you’ll be different and not wearing the same as someone else! ?

Elless Sun 12-Sept-21 09:58:17

Try Kaleidoscope online.

MartenSP Tue 01-Mar-22 19:41:10

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Grandmabatty Tue 01-Mar-22 20:18:36

Reported.

BigBertha1 Tue 01-Mar-22 22:30:33

I just sent for something from Finery...nice things on their website not too pricey.

MerylStreep Tue 01-Mar-22 22:36:26

Look at the date zombie thread.

Jane43 Tue 01-Mar-22 22:49:40

We still have House Of Fraser in our town and they have some nice brands but a lot of their space is now taken up by sports wear. T K Maxx can have some nice items but is a bit hit and miss, especially if you are a popular size. In our town we have lost Debenhams and Monsoon, apart from House Of Fraser there is only M and S and Primark for clothing. Even if I go further afield to Birmingham John Lewis has closed down and so has Debenhams which was huge with a great choice of clothing. Kaleidoscope on line has some very nice clothes suitable for a wedding.

Jane43 Tue 01-Mar-22 22:51:05

I see Elless suggested Kaleidoscope too.

Kamiso Tue 01-Mar-22 23:08:25

Deedaa

To be honest most of my clothes now come from EBay or a very nice charity shop in our nearest town. I've found some real gems there sometimes.

Wedding outfits especially as they tend to only get one outing! Look on eBay for items ending on bank holidays or Sundays as there is likely to be less competition.

Redhead56 Wed 02-Mar-22 00:25:07

Apricot and Country Casuals have some lovely smart dresses (don’t be put off by the name) and accessories scarves etc. Boundary Mill some really well known labels good quality. I’m there a lot when we visit our daughter we spend hours there.

JackyB Wed 02-Mar-22 07:49:06

MerylStreep

*Look at the date* zombie thread.

The couple may not even be together any more.

Sorry, that wasn't nice. I hope they're happy and have had babies in the meantime.

MerylStreep Wed 02-Mar-22 08:05:46

JackyB
I may as well have saved my time. Posters still giving advice even though the op was poster on 14 August 2021
Let’s see how many more post even the the OP isn’t reading

Witzend Wed 02-Mar-22 08:06:19

I wish you luck, OP! Have you looked online? I only finally found a dress online for dd’s wedding - and that was after much trawling of local shops (including using John Lewis’s personal shopper service) - there was nothing.

The do was going to be in France, in summer, so very likely hot. And it wasn’t going to be a very formal do - weather permitting, mostly out of doors. I didn’t want any typical ‘mother of the bride’ thing, and nothing short or sleeveless or very fitted.

There was absolutely nothing. In the end I found a dress on the Poetry website. I ordered two sizes since unsure, and simply sent the other back for free.

Lucca Wed 02-Mar-22 08:40:22

LOOK AT THE DATE ON THE OP !!!!

MerylStreep Wed 02-Mar-22 08:48:47

Lucca
They’re not listening ?

Knittynatter Wed 02-Mar-22 09:09:58

Does it matter that it’s a zombie thread - there will still be some of us looking for something nice to wear that will find this useful.

aonk Wed 02-Mar-22 11:08:05

Don’t ignore M and S! You need to look carefully on their website but there are some really lovely dresses and they come in different lengths. Also nice jackets especially as we get towards Spring. Don’t forget that things can be altered for a better fit. I would also agree about Monsoon and they have frequent offers and sales.

Calendargirl Wed 02-Mar-22 13:16:17

Knittynatter

Does it matter that it’s a zombie thread - there will still be some of us looking for something nice to wear that will find this useful.

I agree. Sometimes an old thread throws up some useful advice, even if it’s a couple of years later. Doesn’t matter if the OP has disappeared, if others find it helpful.

Rosiebee Mon 02-May-22 20:58:59

Grateful it hasn't been deleted. I had dress ready for a wedding this June but when I tried it on, the look on DH's face told me everything. He blustered a bit but I just knew I wasn't going to be happy wearing it. A rather busy poppy print which I initially thought was rather jolly but now reminds me of a pair of curtains. I have a navy chiffon dress that "would do" but need to brighten it up with accessories or get another outfit. Will be looking up some of the suggestions made. Many thanks

MissAdventure Mon 02-May-22 21:02:17

I suggest you 'pull yourself together'.
Sorry, couldn't resist.
Hope someone will give you good advice. smile

Blossoming Mon 02-May-22 21:17:47

I like red teamed with navy rosiebee. How about red shoes and a long floaty scarf looped around over your shoulder? I was being naughty and thinking of a bright poppy print scarf grin

Rosiebee Tue 10-May-22 16:43:48

Thanks Blossoming that's the way I was thinking. I have a red bag with a bee on it, bought to go with original dress. Struggling a bit with shoes. The dress needs a bit of a heel but I haven't worn heels for ages and don't want to look like Dick Emery's Gloria - if anyone remembers those sketches. It's sad - I don't want to look like the granny at the wedding but I am that granny now.

Granny23 Tue 10-May-22 17:09:35

All my "Best" clothing comes from Charity shops. I could not afford them if new, but people with money to spare do not want to wear the same outfits to two similar occasions where the same people will be present, so worn once and off to the charity shop they go to be found and worn by thrifty shoppers like me. grin

Callistemon21 Tue 10-May-22 17:45:06

MerylStreep

Lucca
They’re not listening ?

I am listening but:

We went past a Debenhams today and I remarked to DH that I took part in a market research survey about 25+ years ago to find out what people thought of a certain department store coming to a nearby city. It was obviously on behalf of Debenhams.

It was years and years before it was built, opened and there it was just a few years later - closed.

MayBee70 Tue 10-May-22 17:52:50

Calendargirl

Knittynatter

Does it matter that it’s a zombie thread - there will still be some of us looking for something nice to wear that will find this useful.

I agree. Sometimes an old thread throws up some useful advice, even if it’s a couple of years later. Doesn’t matter if the OP has disappeared, if others find it helpful.

I agree. I’ve actually learned that Roman Originals have high street shops for a start. I thought they were just an internet company.