How unpleasant! I am not referring to Lilian, but the nasty comments made to her about her post.
Are we seriously being told that none of the offended on this thread has ever seen someone and thought that if the person had an honest friend, or indeed a full length mirror, they might have chosen a different outfit? Has anyone ever been asked to pass an opinion on a friend's outfit, and found themselves only able to say 'It doesn't matter in the least what you look like - I'm saying nothing, just wear it - who cares?' How ridiculous would that be when most people do care what they look like and prefer to wear something that at least fits and looks reasonable. The conclusion must be that if we can't say, or even think it seems, that another person might look better and it really doesn't matter at all, we should walk into a shop, take any old thing off the rail and stuff ourselves into it, regardless. I thought the post was quite innocent, not insulting, and I hope Lilian isn't reeling around her house stung beyond measure by the reaction to comments that she is entitled to make as generalisations. Like everyone else, I've seen some sartorial disasters, and haven't felt any kind of sneeering satisfaction - just a thought that something a little more flattering might have been better. Just saying!