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Dressy shoes that don’t hurt!

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Flaxseed Wed 18-Sept-24 15:08:41

I am trying to think ahead to a couple of Christmas (sorry to mention the C word!) events I am going to.
I still like fashion and have some nice little (not so little these days!) black dresses that I can wear, but just the thought of wearing my lovely Clarkes, kitten heeled sling backs makes my feet hurt!
They are low but I just find them too uncomfortable.
I have looked online for ideas for ‘dressy’ block heeled sling backs but they are either mega expensive, frumpy or look too painful to wear.
Anyone have any suggestions please?!

Dalfie5577 Fri 20-Sept-24 11:35:10

I got some super shoes for a wedding, make Magiopy, from Amazon. It is also very easy to return if they are not quite right.

Norah Fri 20-Sept-24 11:52:01

Flaxseed I have looked online for ideas for ‘dressy’ block heeled sling backs

Clarks are usually comfortable. Maybe these--

Clarks Women's Bayla Joy Pump
4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars 27 ratings | Search this page
£73.69£73.69

Oreo Fri 20-Sept-24 12:43:19

I’d never ever buy shoes online they need to be tried on before buying, trying a few pairs in a shop is the best way.Exceptions are for Skechers which once you know your size can be safely bought online.

Flaxseed Sat 21-Sept-24 10:07:35

norah they could be a contender, although heel slightly higher than I would have liked. We have a Clarkes in town so I will look.
Thanks to everyone

alfordjennifer Mon 23-Sept-24 09:58:52

If you are looking for more comfortable and classy stuff, you can visit this site: www.nycjackets.com/mens-leather-shoes/

Denni14 Sun 29-Sept-24 13:53:28

Hiya iam 55,me and my other half just started to grow on cruises,he said we have to dress sart on the next one,I don't usually wear high heels which I haven't worn for years,but,I will feel I have to get a decent shoe with a heel to dress smart,as iam only 5ft 2in,as sometimes my feet burn,can anyone suggest anything,iam in the UK,

Kim19 Sun 29-Sept-24 17:09:59

Another vote for Gabor here.

Tuaim Sun 29-Sept-24 20:36:02

I have a lovely pair of black Rieker shoes with a little heel and round toed. They are more for spring/autumn but look very neat.

RosiesMaw2 Sun 29-Sept-24 21:22:01

Has anybody got experience of Vivaia shoes? Much advertised on Facebook and Instagram but I always have my reservations.

emiliacarters Tue 08-Apr-25 13:37:03

Finding dressy shoes that are comfortable can be a game-changer! It's all about the right fit and support, especially if you’re on your feet for long hours. Orthotic sandals or shoes designed with comfort in mind can really make a difference. I’ve found that shoes with proper arch support and cushioning make dressy styles much more wearable. Anyone else have suggestions for brands or tips on finding stylish yet pain-free shoes?

emiliacarters Tue 08-Apr-25 13:40:36

I totally get the frustration! It's so exciting when you find a pair that meets all your criteria, only to realize the sizing doesn't match. I’ve been there too! If you're a size 4, you might want to check out other brands that offer smaller sizes. Sometimes it's worth reaching out to the store to see if they have additional sizes or if they can recommend similar styles.

Here's a link I found to a stylish and comfortable option that might be worth exploring: www.aerothotic.com/collections/all-comfort-sandals

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Grannmarie Sat 12-Apr-25 23:45:05

Hello 👋 flaxseed, sorry I'm late to your thread.
I have a pair of Clarks slingbacks with a block heel, similar to Norah's photo, but lower.
Also in my photo are my Hotter black patent leather heels, very comfortable and cushioned, £89.
Maybe either might suit you?

Granmarderby10 Sun 13-Apr-25 09:05:57

Why are so many women’s shoes pointy toed ?

jeanie99 Sun 20-Apr-25 09:30:39

I’ve also been looking for a pair of slingback sandals with a small heel. Something I can wear when I need to dress formal. The pair I’ve always used in the past have a wedge heel of about 3 inch. These are far too high for me now at my age. The problem I’m finding is that I can see the shoes but the heels are too high. What I’d like is a wedge of about 1 1/2 inch which would suit me great, but I’ve been unable to find anything like what I’m looking for. And oh dear, those awful pointed toes why have they now brought them in? They’re absolutely useless for me. Also, I wouldn’t purchase anything over the Internet. I have to try shoes on, can’t be doing with sending multiple shoes back. It is a bit of a headache.

NotSpaghetti Sun 20-Apr-25 09:34:06

Wondering what (if anything) uou found flaxseed?

Allira Sun 20-Apr-25 10:24:58

petra

Could you not wear them around the house, say half an hour each day?

Spray with leather stretcher and wear them with socks.
Just around the house, not when you go out 😃