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The best clothing?

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BellaSwonnie Wed 26-Nov-25 16:27:36

Traveling somewhere hot and humid can be a shock when your usual summer clothes suddenly feel too heavy and sticky, and long flights only make it harder to figure out what will stay comfortable the whole time. I’ve been looking at
www.redelk.it/en/ lately — it’s an outdoor clothing store, and the fabrics are designed specifically for warm, active climates rather than just for looks. What surprised me is that outdoor dresses and tops are made to be lightweight, breathable and quick-drying, so they stay comfortable in wet heat and don’t cling the way regular cotton or jersey can. Many of the pieces are cut so you don’t need heavy strapless bras — built-in support, racerback shapes and soft technical materials make layering easier without worrying about straps showing. Outdoor clothing tends to focus on movement and comfort in real weather conditions, so it can be a good alternative when you need something floaty and flattering that still keeps you cool in tropical humidity.

PeterBrown45 Wed 06-Aug-25 13:56:36

Hi everyone! I totally agree that comfort and quality are key when choosing clothes, especially as we get older. I’ve found that investing in a few well-made staples like good coats, knitwear, and shoe makes a big difference because they last longer and feel better to wear.

I also try to shop more sustainably now, either by choosing brands that focus on ethical production or by buying from charity shops and vintage stores. It’s surprising how many beautiful and unique pieces you can find that way!

What’s your go to piece that you feel really comfortable and confident in?

silverlining48 Wed 23-Jul-25 12:23:11

Definitely cotton.

Naticastyle Wed 23-Jul-25 12:17:27

The best clothing is what makes you feel confident and comfortable. Timeless pieces, good fit, and soft fabrics always win in my book. Style doesn't have to follow trends, it should reflect your personality. A well-loved outfit often outshines the most expensive one.

Esmay Wed 16-Jul-25 13:52:03

Malaysia is hot and sticky .
The people tend to be rather reserved .
Cotton or linen are best .
Synthetic bras are too hot .
I've worn very loose long sleeved tops with long skirts or pants on my visit .
Remember to cover your hair if visiting mosques or holy places .
In fact I found that keeping my head covered and acting modestly earned me respect.
People were very kind and helpful .
I was extremely unwell on one trip -vomiting and passing out and found myself being massaged , fanned and having sweeties popped into my mouth whilst people looked upset and concerned !
Malaysian food and drink is delicious .
I took many gifts of inexpensive scent and soap which were appreciated
I felt very safe .
You'll have a wonderful time .
Wishing you a safe trip .

eazybee Wed 16-Jul-25 13:23:55

I would not think halter necks, as that will expose your shoulders to the sun. Cheesecloth tops and skirts.

Visgir1 Wed 16-Jul-25 12:11:03

Depends where in Malaysia you are going? KL is more liberal than say Penang.
You can buy Tee shirts with a "bra" inside. Also I often buy pure cotton bras from M&S comes in a pack of x3.
I have been out to Malaysia several times, I find it more humid that blistering sunny, so any Tee shirt and shorts for me.
Have a fabulous time, it's a wonderful country.

Naticastyle Wed 16-Jul-25 11:10:29

When choosing the best clothing, focus on comfort, fit, and fabric quality. Classic styles in neutral colors often offer long-lasting wear. Most importantly, wear what makes you feel confident and at ease.

M0nica Fri 11-Jul-25 09:53:08

I would think twice about halter tops. In recent years Malaysia has become a much more Islamic country, with emphasis on 'modest' dress for women.

I would wear sleeveless or cap sleeved tops, with no plunging or revealing necklines, which would mean you could wear an ordinary bra.

I spent part of my childhood in Malaysia and I would concur with the recommendation to wear only cotton. As I remember all my dresses - and back in the 1950s/60s one wore mainly dresses - had short/cap sleeves or were sleeveless

karmalady Fri 11-Jul-25 09:49:48

The people in Malasia are quite modest and conservative regarding clothing. I bought a couple of really useful cotton dresses while I was in a Kuala Lumpur. Yes I agree cotton and linen for heat. Malaysia was a lot hotter than I anticipated

Aldom Fri 11-Jul-25 09:42:06

When I have been in Australia/Malaysia I have worn loose linen trousers and T shirts. I wore my usual bra, no problem.

Samsara1 Fri 11-Jul-25 09:40:44

I worked with a lady who spent long years in Malaysia as an army nurse. She swore by 'cotton only!' in the tropics as she called it. Personally I find no underwear better in the heat if one is at home of course.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 11-Jul-25 08:44:50

Go to a Bravissimo shop, get properly measured and try on all they have to offer, you will find a comfy strapless bra.

If you are feeling extravagant, find your nearest Rigby and Peller, more expensive but worth it if you have a larger bust.

Loobs Fri 11-Jul-25 08:41:04

I am shortly going to be travelling to Malaysia, the first long haul flight I have been on in over 15 years. I feel pretty happy about what to wear on the planes but, having recently experienced really hot weather in France, I now realise my 'summer wardrobe' is totally inadequate for the sort of wet heat I will experience. I think the best type of clothing is long floaty dresses , not too fitted and with halter type necks, as t-shirts and short sleeved tops still seem too hot (unless anyone knows any better???). My problem then is, what bra to wear? I don't want the straps to show so I obviously need to wear strapless bras - does anyone have any suggestions for the best brand? I have tried going without but, although I haven't got huge boobs, they are still big enough to look really jiggly and I feel really self conscious without.