Ok BlueBelle I will try to explain how Facebook looks now.
I log on and there is my photo and at the top of the page there is a horizontal list as follows.
Messages with 9+ after it. Then Requests, then conversations, then notifications, then the magnifying symbol, followed by the menu.
Sometimes under my photo there will be a whole lot of photos from different people/organisations I know, not just friends, such as a cinema where I used to live and springwatch.
So I can no longer select a friend and see what JUST she is saying, because I get a bit of everyone’s input.
If I tap on Menu I get just a list down the left hand side of just one or two words per line with say Apps I could download and don’t want.
So I no longer log on and see what I have been saying in the last week or so. That info must be buried somewhere in this mess.
I used to like when I was on a friend’s Fb that my photo was at the top of their page so I could get back to my page easily, that has now disappeared.
Does your FB front page look like this too ?