Travelling alone and independently

When I was 8 I went away with the Brownies,When I was 12 and 13 stayed with a Dutch family for 3 weeks each time (to do with Ginger bread)and when I was 40 odd I went to Belfast by plane...nothing exciting however I do feel I would have the confidence to go away alone if I wanted to even if I felt a little apprehensive

I was also wondering how white Elephant managed to 'die' twice.

Sorry WhiteElephant
You didn’t die
Dead is forever
A cardiac arrest perhaps?

Women Welcome Women Worldwide (5W) has been going for about 40 years. You pay an annual membership fee of £35 and can stay, or meet up with, women of all ages, from all walks of life on a reciprocal visiting basis all over the world. Local groups also meet up and will often organise longer events for visitors. There are also house swap listings and ‘travel with me’ listings too. Do have a look - it’s a truly wonderful organisation!

Thank you nonogran for the tip about Sister Stay. That sounds just perfect for me!

The trick with hotels is to book independently - not through a travel company. You then have the power to go next door and they dont want that if they have empty rooms to fill. So you end up with a room upgrade and not the shitty dump in the basement.

I could do the sightseeing and travel on my own, but think meal times would be lonely. I'm not really outgoing enough to ask a stranger to join me to sit

I agree that this can be challenging because eating out is a social occasion and its nicer to have a companion. Often I would do so much during the day that when evening came I would be happy just to eat at the hotel or have rooms service and an early night.

Ive had experience of travelling with groups where I ended up as the unpaid tour guide (because I was the only one who spoke the language or had visited the city before). It didnt take long for me to dump the group and go off to have some me time. Shopping and sightseeing are so much more fun on your own because you set your own agenda. I HATE shopping with a group of tourists. The prices instantly go up and I am a haggler.

I don’t mind traveling at all, I have been going solo for more then twenty- five years, it’s the rooms I get given when I arrive.

Once I had booked a double but on arrival I was told that there was a couple arriving and I would be given a single instead. Couldn’t argue, it was in the middle of nowhere, in Scotland, no time to find something else. The single bed must of served the child, who had left home, since they were three.
Another time, in Cuba, although it was a double bed it was in a windowless room and the double room in a hotel in Rome was in the basement until I stood my ground. But I am looking forward to going away this summer.

Good idea biglouise about the wedge.

ps www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgahkqrCiZQ
This is the last stage of the journey - a modern recording?
It was a lot more primitive last time I went.

Now I come to think of it , I travelled alone to sons in Kuwait and India. though when I got there I was going to stay with family.
The last time was in 2012 to Kodai Kanal in Tamil Nadu in SE India.
I would love to go back but the journey is long and complicated and I'm in my 80s.

I have travelled solo when husband did not want to go with me, but I’d rather have company, singles holiday groups are good too. Not an issue now OH likes pretty much the same things I do and he pays.

nonogran I hope you don’t mind but am going to ask other grans if they have had experience with ‘sisterstay’ as it sounds good and safe for an older woman.

Thanks for this thread. It is inspiring me to take the plunge and travel on my own.

How wonderful! Hats off to you - my sister has done similar and enjoyed every minute of it. Sadly, I’m not as brave as her …

Anyone contemplating travelling as a lone woman? I hope this website might help:

You stay in the homes of other women.
www.sisterstay.com/

I don't fly but I have travelled alone all over the uk. I find it's all in the preparation, as long as you've done your homework before hand everything should be fine.
Canadian Gran, I would rather eat alone than with a complete stranger so I always take a book. That way I'm not say twiddling my thumbs and looking a bit desperate

Good for all of you. My DH does travel, but he is getting a bit set in his ways and isn't as interested as previously. Will I ever do it on my own? I'm not sure, if I'm honest!

I could do the sightseeing and travel on my own, but think meal times would be lonely. I'm not really outgoing enough to ask a stranger to join me to sit.

The only place I have gone it alone is the South of France but I had been before about 15 time, it was fannnntastic, I totted about on my 3" heels. I was in my late 30s and I didn't have problems with mobility.

Looking at photos, I can not believe I totted round the South of France in HEELS, but I did it.

I traveled independently with just a small rucksack for many years mostly alone and occasional with my daughter or a friend. I started and gained my confidence in Sri Lanka. After that came India, Thailand, Nepal Bali and Laos all visited several times. When I got together with my now ex partner we travelled in a much more organised way with tours arranged and far better accommodation. I always envied the freedom of the backpackers we met on these trips. Now I’m single again as soon as I can I will be off with only a flight ticket and a lonely planet guide book. Can’t wait.

I never told my family where I was going as they would have gone nuts. I gave my contact details to one nephew because I knew I could trust him not to contact me for triavial reasons.

There are only a couple of places left on my bucket list.

One is Yemen which is not possible because of the war.

Another is the Galapagos Islands to see the giant reptiles, particularly the tortoises. Unfortunately you have to be fairly active for this type of trip as they do live in inaccessible places and I now have very limited mobility.

I would also like to see Saudi Arabia. Have been to all the other countries in that region but tourism in KSA has only recently opened up.

I went to England, alone when I was 62 yrs old. Ohhh the family went nuts! I have very good friends that took really good care of me and I had so much fun. It was after I had 2 heart attacks in one night (died both times). It was something I had to do for myself before it was too late. I will never regret it. My hubby made the mistake of telling I could not go and he didn't want to... so I bought my tickets and said see you in a week. We are still married btw. Now if I want to go, he comes with.