I was totally supportive of Jill during the exchange in the Brookfield kitchen when Pip went on a sorte to help herself to various cakes or deserts that Jill had made for her loved ones.
Call me old fashioned but honestly, speaking to your mid eighty aged grandmother in that tone at the age of 23, beyond anything reasonable. Shocking, self indulgent and thoroughly unpleasant. If I didn't have better self restraint, I'd say Pip needs good shaking. That can be done without using physical violence, David or Ruth need to have a calm, sensitive and clear discussion with Pip about the need to respect and show love and acceptance towards her elderly gran. What a little madam!