The Archers

Wish I could tell you phoenix but I'm still !

Me too Chewbacca

"Threads are what the totality of posters make them not what one or two people dictate."
Good comment GGMk2. Why don't you heed it?
This was always one of the least controversial (and light-hearted threads) threads and then GGMk2 waded in!

I was not being in the least controversial. I just said I didn't understand something. It is others who have taken offence at my lack of understanding. I am part of the thread too mcem. This is not the Archers Party or the Archers club where you may only join if you treat it in a certain way. I was not dictating to anyone but I was then dictated too, simply because I admitted to not understanding how/why some people think the way they do.

It has taken three or four of you to try and persuade me that I am "wrong" when I had never said or implied that I was "right". I see a lot of unconfident people posting their attacks about nothing in order to feel better in themselves and I am sorry if I inadvertently struck a nerve for some.

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I see a lot of unconfident people posting their attacks about nothing in order to feel better in themselves and I am sorry if I inadvertently struck a nerve for some

Oh dear. Nobody is “out to get you”
Molehill, mountain.

Are they the only expressive words you know Maw?

I don't think anyone is out to get me and if you thought that was how I did feel you were being very unkind, weren't you. I just see it as a very childish conversation. I am going out now to meet up with nice, thoughtful people so you just carry on feeling you are "winning" or whatever it is you need today. Don't mind my feelings as long as you all feel better.

Are you more of a Mumsnetter than a Gransnetter? I notice a few of them come over here for their arguments

Do you mind not attacking me personally LG. I am no different today than any other day Merlot just tried to try and slap me down. I will not be slapped! If you continue with these attacks I will report them

And all this on a thread about a radio soap?
<sigh>

When the cap fits GGMK2

And no, I was not being unkind.
Your own words made it perfectly clear that you seem to feel you have somehow been victimised.
Please do not accuse me of paucity of vocabulary.

Credit to the scriptwriters that listeners get so involved in the characters and storylines that they connect emotionally (both negatively and positively) with some of them. You can “ dislike” a character but still like the show surely - we love to hate a villain in a story (cos its a drama innit?) anyway I love to hate- Jennifer, Kate, Tobee and Pip at the mo. I always like Susan , Clarrie and Eddie. Anyone else fed up with Harrison and Fallon plugging sport relief ?

Can you read Maw? I didn't say that you were being unkind but that if you thought I felt a person/people "were out to get me" then you would be being unkind to add to what you described as how you thought you were making me feel. I do not feel victimised but I also do not intend to be bullied by two or three old grannies.

If you want to go on doing this and ruining the thread - all or any of you - I can keep replying. Or we could discuss the Archers.

Or we could discuss the Archers.

We could try.

Yes, I am fed up with the constant plugging of Sport Relief in The Archers. ?

When does the step thing actually end?

The Aldridges already have a lot hanging over them. If Alice is the hit and run driver - which as was said would explain the drinking - and with Brian running hard to put things right for the family, you do feel something has to give sooner rather than later.

1. Yes I can read An MA under my belt might attest to that
2. You did not say it would be unkind, etc etc etc you said if, blah, blah “you were being unkind (check use of tenses)
3. Can we have less of the “old Grannies” please? I possibly may be older than you having just hit 70, but don’t pretend “old Grannies” was meant as a compliment.
4. You have managed to slag off mcem, merlot, Phoenix, luckygirl and chewbacca in as many posts oh and me, now FFS get out of the right side of the bed next time.
Bullying?
My a**e!

So MawBroon, you have decided to carry on with this nonsense. I do heartily apologise if my tenses upset you. Perhaps you mistook this for the pedants thread.

However, it really wasn't me who gathered three or four people together to form an attack. Surely almost nothing I could have said would warrant that? Bullying? yes. One person and its just a reply to a comment; three or four and I would call that bullying. As for Grannies; I am one and generally we are older or old. I would seem a little over sensitive to complain about a truthful description.

It appears that a group gathering together to set about the post one person is okay with you but that one person defending themselves is not. Nice

I have tried to get this back to the Archers. You are obviously determined not to.

Just a thought but my daughter has an MA too. Reading is extremely difficult - about half the speed of an average adult and great difficulty with all the totally new words (and a lot of the regular ones) that she will probably never come across again. She does manage to understand what is written though. Congratulations on yours (do I bow?) but it doesn't always seem to promote logic, does it?

Still determined to go on with this silliness? I will be back later.

Graces, You can't start something, drag it on then drop it like a hot potato when it suits you. As maw said, you have unfairly criticized some of us.

As for gathering a group together to set about you (I think that's what you mean)

What planet are you on?

I haven't dropped it. I thought you all might like to. I certainly won't while you keep coming back. I was just starting to cook - that happens at this time of the evening. My apologies if this is not convenient for you.

I really don't think you have been any more unfairly criticized than I was. I tried to move the thread on and you really cannot blame me for MB's post.

As for gathering a group together to set about you (I think that's what you mean)
No, that wasn't quite what I said was it so obviously not exactly what I meant. I doubt that playground bullies all decide to join in the nastiness. They just see the first person doing whatever and then add their two pennyworth. It doesn't make it any better though does it and it certainly doesn't make it reasonable behaviour.

I am aware just how silly this is. I just can't believe others can't see it.

I will be back later (Promises, promises!)
Fight, empty room....?

Revenons alors à nos moutons (et cochons et vaches ....)

GGMK2 I certainly won't while (sic) you keep coming back. So you will only stop this ridiculous behaviour if you have the last word? Now thats bullying behaviour. You dragged me into this silly war of words when I'd said nothing to you, or about you. My one and only post, on this whole thread, was to tell phoenix that I'd recognised that she'd tried to attach a smiley to her post. From that 1 post you've accused me of bullying you and ganging up on you. Report my post and get it over and done with it you're so convinced that you're the innocent victim of a vendetta.

Well, perhaps I should have said from time to time during the evening. I am really not intending to spend all my time on GN I'm afraid MB.

I would certainly agree to a return to The Archers as, after all, that is what the thread is about. Should you prefer just the sheep, pigs and cows I doubt anyone would object.

I expect you do really realise what “Revenons à nos moutons” means.....

Is something troubling you GracesGranMK2? I can see no explanation as to why you have dropped in on this thread and taken away its joy. So maybe it is something at home. I hope you will be feeling a bit brighter soon.

Alice was a star at the funeral! - that was a unexpected piece of scriptwriting. But the acting of the episode was, I thought, very good - she was obnoxious, but not so OTT that it was not credible.