I had to go back and listen to the episode when Tom told Jazzer off for feeding the pigs too much. Later he and Natasha were talking about the history of his pig business:
Tom: The real reason I started the pigs was because of my brother, because that’s what he did. I was seventeen when he died and I suppose I felt …
Natasha: You owed it to him?
Tom: Kind of, yeah. Does that make sense?
Natasha: Course it does. It’s sweet.
Tom: And then I got properly interested in the whole thing, The sausage business and setting up my own brand. To me that was all inspiring.
Natasha: Still is, isnt it? That’s the legacy then, isn’t it? The inspiration. What you made of the business. That’s what your brother left you. How you moved it on. I’m proud of that.
To insist now that he didn’t tell her is simply wrong. She’s sounding like another gaslighter. A she-Rob. I’m wondering if the point of this storyline is for Pat to recognise in what is going on with Tom and Natasha, what she failed see with Helen and Rob.