I don't agree with the press intrusion at all, but I do appreciate it comes with the job of being a
member of the RF. Some cope with it, others don't, (no one should have to), and it depends very much on personality. Kate has nerves of steel, Camilla has a wicked sense of humour, Anne just says "Naff Off", Fergie probably says worse under her breath, and Sophue is serenity itself. They all find a way.
The problem comes with the more sensitive and emotional characters like Diana and Meghan (who just cried at everything - if we believe the tears, which I do up to a point). Maybe there was a case for them to be protected even more than others by the institution, and this was touched on a bit in the later series. Compromises should have been found to assist Meghan through it.