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Farzanah Thu 20-Jul-23 19:30:39

Is anyone still listening or have you given up?

Franbern Fri 18-Aug-23 09:12:58

I am pleased that, at last, the Producers have decided to propelry end the sotry rearding Rob.

WHen it ran, it was excllent and was slow and drawn out just like real life, Could not fault either the scripting or the acting of all characters

Then, quite suddenly (and I have a vague memory of a change of peron in charge), the story was just finalised with a very silly ending. None of it made any sense at all and Rob disapeared.

Does seem as if this has now been re=visting and Rob, in all of his brilliantly chilling manner is going to bring a proper final ending to this saga.

Recent stories have been so poor, I have only been half-listening. Getting on with washing-up, knitting, doing puzzles, etc. With these scene listen intently.

Farzanah Fri 18-Aug-23 11:03:21

Gosh what a good memory DaisyAR. Thanks for the reminder. I completely agree, Rob is can’t change, it’s who he is, and he will be ruthless in pursuit of his son. I will be tuning in in anticipation.

I get a bit bored from time to time but there have been some interesting storylines lately. Pip and Stella, George. There can’t be high drama constantly (like Wolf on tv 😱) I know because it’s a long running serial.
I like radio because I have a picture in my mind of the characters. I don’t like seeing photos of the actors.

DaisyAnneReturns Fri 18-Aug-23 11:53:08

It's definitely slow radio, it always has been, but I like it that way. It means story lines can be played out in real time.

I know what you mean about pictures in your mindsmile

NotSpaghetti Fri 18-Aug-23 16:28:30

I think you are wrong DaisyAnneReturns - I think he was actually goading her to kill herself.
He said something like "it's the only way you'll ever get away from me".

Elrel Fri 18-Aug-23 23:22:42

Did anyone follow Henry or is a distraught 12 year old about to go missing?

merlotgran Fri 18-Aug-23 23:29:47

I wondered where he stormed off to as well. Why didn’t Helen go after him? 🤔

NotSpaghetti Sat 19-Aug-23 07:11:51

Think Kirsty said she'd take him to Tony and Pat.
Presumably leaving Helen to continue her meltdown at the pool?

Why was Kirsty there in the first place? I totally missed that...?

DaisyAnneReturns Sat 19-Aug-23 08:46:01

NotSpaghetti

I think you are wrong DaisyAnneReturns - I think he was actually goading her to kill herself.
He said something like "it's the only way you'll ever get away from me".

I expect you're right. I just remembered that he was holding the knife.

Franbern Sat 19-Aug-23 09:53:49

Well,, without doubt, Rob's return has breathed new life in this Soap. Welcome back!!!!

merlotgran Sat 19-Aug-23 10:22:23

Helen should still have rung the police. Rob was definitely breaking the non molestation order as Helen didn’t know Henry had been in contact.

Her solicitor would argue that visiting Rob after his diagnosis was evidence that she was still being coerced.

Tink75 Sat 19-Aug-23 10:29:40

Given up.

Iam64 Sat 19-Aug-23 20:15:42

Helen shows behaviour and emotions seen in people with complex post traumatic stress disorder. So far as we know, neither she nor Henry had any significant therapeutic input after stubby/hmp/release.

NotSpaghetti Sat 19-Aug-23 20:38:15

You are right of course Iam - I often wondered why she had no proper counselling.

I was wrong and unkind when I dismissed her upthread.
I know I would never have done that in my working life!

Luckily this is only a radio show - and this "Helen" doesn't exist in real life so I won't beat myself up about it.

Thank you Iam.

Iam64 Sat 19-Aug-23 21:11:01

NotSpahetti I don’t think you dismissed Helen abd you’re so right, it’s only a soap so we can enjoy getting cross - as I was about the ferret

The script writers portrayed the coercive / rape abuse in the helen/Rob story well. As things are now without good therapeutic input helen, her sons and immediate family will face real struggles. They will even with good support. Those sw seem determined to subject helen to trauma on trauma.

Yes I know, she has a history bore Rob of bad Choices

merlotgran Sat 19-Aug-23 22:03:44

I wonder what Helen has told Henry about his own biological father? He must have asked her by now.

welbeck Sat 19-Aug-23 22:22:38

where did he come from, biologically ?

Farzanah Sat 19-Aug-23 23:01:20

Wasn’t he conceived via a donor when Helen was single?

eGJ Sun 20-Aug-23 05:01:00

Yes, Farzanah quite right. He was born six weeks early by caesarean as Helen had pre- eclampsia.

Peartree Sun 20-Aug-23 06:33:16

Rob is so conniving and Helen is a bit dopey regarding him she should play him at his own game, like saying yes we should sort out you seeing your son. Put him on the back foot and get him to beg instead of being frightened or letting hin know she is frightened of him. I wonder how long they are going to drag this story out.

DaisyAnneReturns Sun 20-Aug-23 07:13:15

Peartree

Rob is so conniving and Helen is a bit dopey regarding him she should play him at his own game, like saying yes we should sort out you seeing your son. Put him on the back foot and get him to beg instead of being frightened or letting hin know she is frightened of him. I wonder how long they are going to drag this story out.

I wonder how each of us would appear to the outside world in the same circumstances? I imagined appearing "dopey" would be the least if our problems. Survival for us and our children would be a much greater one.

Perhaps they should "drag this out" until more people understand what this is and until the victim blaming stops.

Peartree Sun 20-Aug-23 07:37:23

Its just a drama for goodness sake. Noone is victim blaming anyone In real life. Helen to me, and this is only me speaking, is all about herself. In the past she has only thought about herself and didnt care about what she put her parents through. This is just a made up story get off your soap box DaisyAnneReturns!

Iam64 Sun 20-Aug-23 08:10:32

Budge over on that soap box DaisyAnnReturns. Helen’s behaviour all indicates she’s suffering complex post traumatic stress disorder. So far as we know, neither she, Henry or her Bridge Farm family have had any therapeutic support.

Peartree Sun 20-Aug-23 08:18:53

Its a story its not real. If this was truly happening to someone they would have my full sympathy but its a load of people sitting in a room making up stuff for a character who dosent exist, but if you want to think its real then be as it may.

DaisyAnneReturns Sun 20-Aug-23 08:39:16

"Just a drama"!

We have been looking at drama since the days of ancient Greece, the old Norse tales and more, in order to learn about life outside our experience. Drama is life!!!smile

Iam You are so right about some therapy. I wonder if they will back-track and refer to what they had previously, why she turned it down or how difficult it was to get referred. Well worth putting out there.

We all have a box of tools from our child and adult interactions. Sometimes they are not enough or are inappropriate. If you were blind you would use a white stick as a tool and someone would teach you how to use it. I do wish we accepted that tools, and how to use them, are just as appropropriate for mental challenges too.

Iam64 Sun 20-Aug-23 19:14:59

OMG - listening now, fantastic scene. George recording and will no doubt post on social media

Helen showing CPTSD
George - classic psychopathy or personality disorder or just plain nastiness