Urmstongran
Oh merlotgran that must have been heartbreaking for you.
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Similar happened to a friend of mine in Yorkshire. Married 61 years. Nursed her husband at home best she could, till she couldn’t. The ambulance came and as he was guided inside, she gave his hand one last squeeze. And cried herself back up her garden path. He died two days later. And the funeral was no comfort to her. Her only living family (a sister) had to sit socially distanced during the poignant service. Beyond sad.
These little snippets from people's lives bring home the reality and the poignancy of the suffering that so many experienced. Unbearably sad.
That is why it's so hard to forgive those that with seeming indifference indulged themselves, breaking rules that they should have been upholding to the nth degree, if only for the sake of common decency.
TBH, I'm tired of the 'Partygate' tag - these were acts of self-gratification and indulgence, showing contempt not only for the 'little people' but the underlying principles of parliamentary law. And then, to lie, deflect and obfuscate and show little to no remorse when held to account is, IMO, a black stain on our parliamentary history. For me, that is worse than the actual 'partying'.
My OH was rushed to hospital during lockdown with a raging infection - I remember his confused expression as they were closing the ambulance doors... "aren't you coming with me?" he said, looking worried and alarmed. I left the paramedics explaining gently to him that "I'm afraid it's not allowed, don't worry, we'll look after you". Nothing compared to what some people went through. He was home 2 days later - still unwell, but they needed the beds.
I have a relative who is fiercely anti-monarchy, but he said that photo' of the Queen sitting alone in the corner at her husband's funeral, in retrospect, reduced him to tears almost. He's aware she had a huge support network (and Andrew I think was sitting not too far away) but it was the fact that she stoically adhered to the rules set by her government because of her sense of duty, that made it so movingly sad. And their self-indulgence so reprehensible.