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BBC Sports Presenter Jermaine Jenas sacked

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TillyTrotter Fri 23-Aug-24 22:05:25

Yet another person who once “famous” has behaved inappropriately towards women he was working with.
This 41 year old has admitted it; he is a married man with 3 children.
Has this always gone on, but it is no longer acceptable?

BlueBelle Sat 24-Aug-24 14:28:54

What I don’t understand and isn’t clear did these women go along with it at first then get uncomfortable and if so why didn’t they just remove the texts and block him It doesn’t seem as if there was anything physical going on just dirty texts which could have been stopped with one press of the button

Still seems harsh to me but then I m not invested in the guy as I ve never watched him
Both Philip S and Hew E involved young people / children this didn’t and those other two seemed to hang around for a while before disappearing this one is, boom gone

JaneJudge Sat 24-Aug-24 14:39:54

It sounds like with the one woman it was not consensual and sexting could mean material other than texts. It is taken seriously in workplaces blueBelle.

Tbh I haven't got a clue who he is. I have a problem with people behaving in this way.

Siope Sat 24-Aug-24 14:49:23

As often happens on GN, I see a fair degree of victim blaming going on. Just don’t do that, ffs. Whether these women received unwanted written texts or dick pics, it’s abusive behaviour by someone likely to have been in a position of power in relation to them, and I for one am glad to see it dealt with appropriately and quickly.

eazybee Sat 24-Aug-24 14:55:06

I had no idea he was a 'person of colour'; just thought of him as a rather anodyne young man.

MissAdventure Sat 24-Aug-24 14:56:08

It's part of the enjoyment for some of these men.

Women are bought up to be polite, not to make a fuss, and now, not to be a "snowflake" too.

David49 Sat 24-Aug-24 15:04:17

Siope

As often happens on GN, I see a fair degree of victim blaming going on. Just don’t do that, ffs. Whether these women received unwanted written texts or dick pics, it’s abusive behaviour by someone likely to have been in a position of power in relation to them, and I for one am glad to see it dealt with appropriately and quickly.

Whether the women wanted them is not the point.

They should not have been sent.
If the woman had been encouraging them, they still should not have been sent.

He really has no defence, he’s a big boy behaving like a child

Siope Sat 24-Aug-24 15:10:15

Er, yes. That’s what I said.

OldFrill Sat 24-Aug-24 15:35:03

BlueBelle

What I don’t understand and isn’t clear did these women go along with it at first then get uncomfortable and if so why didn’t they just remove the texts and block him It doesn’t seem as if there was anything physical going on just dirty texts which could have been stopped with one press of the button

Still seems harsh to me but then I m not invested in the guy as I ve never watched him
Both Philip S and Hew E involved young people / children this didn’t and those other two seemed to hang around for a while before disappearing this one is, boom gone

It wasn't "boom gone", he knew he was under investigation but he was hoping he'd only be suspended, (so he lied to his wife about it). Obviously the BBC kept it low key until they finished their investigation and reached their final decision.
He has teenage children, what kind of example is he setting.
He also has young children
He'll be lucky to save his marriage.
I'd leave him just because l couldn't love someone so brazenly stupid.

David49 Sat 24-Aug-24 16:27:29

It depends on his wife it was only silly texting, Rooney had multiple affairs and they are still together, wives have lots of reasons for wanting to stay together.

MissAdventure Sat 24-Aug-24 16:35:48

It depends on whether his wife finds it just silly, I guess.

Wonder how most men would feel if their wives texted another man similar content?

Sarnia Sat 24-Aug-24 17:52:12

David49

It depends on his wife it was only silly texting, Rooney had multiple affairs and they are still together, wives have lots of reasons for wanting to stay together.

For a WAG, the lifestyle.

Iam64 Sat 24-Aug-24 17:54:24

“Silly texting” is unlikely to be a sacking offence. Calling it sexting minimises the level of offence outlined in the framework shown earlier

Iam64 Sat 24-Aug-24 17:57:31

JaneJudge

He has admitted 'sexting' these women. I would just like to remind you all of that definition

^What is considered as sexting?
Sexting is the act of sending sexual text messages. It often also involves sending nude, seminude, or suggestive photos. Sometimes, the messages also include sexual or explicit videos. Sexting can happen via messaging on cell phones or other messaging services^

ThanksJaneJudge, yours was the post I was referring to

BlueBelle Sat 24-Aug-24 18:04:39

oldfrill I didn’t know there had been an ongoing thing I hadn’t read about that at all I didn’t know he was under investigation If he knew he was in trouble and carried on then he’s an arrogant *a…h… That certainly didn’t say that in the account I read
Seems so many conflicting stories

LauraNorderr Sat 24-Aug-24 18:09:27

These people have a huge influence on young people. I’m glad to see the BBC dealing with the matter firmly. Hopefully a deterrent to others.

Norah Sat 24-Aug-24 18:26:16

TillyTrotter

Yet another person who once “famous” has behaved inappropriately towards women he was working with.
This 41 year old has admitted it; he is a married man with 3 children.
Has this always gone on, but it is no longer acceptable?

It's not acceptable now, never should have been.

silverlining48 Sat 24-Aug-24 19:05:26

I hadn’t heard of him but understand the woman who complained was young and very junior, his texts were read out loud to him by a bbc executive and it was pretty unpleasant stuff.
It was bra ve of her to complain, it is never acceptable, especially when there is an inbalance of power.
What idiots some men are.
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Galaxy Sat 24-Aug-24 19:07:47

If that's true reading aloud by the management is an excellent strategy.

JaneJudge Sat 24-Aug-24 19:09:05

Galaxy

If that's true reading aloud by the management is an excellent strategy.

Galaxy, they’ve always done this in retail in any disciplinarians of this nature

JaneJudge Sat 24-Aug-24 19:10:09

Disciplinaries

Galaxy Sat 24-Aug-24 19:11:44

Oh that's interesting. I wasnt aware of that. Wonder if they do that in the public sector

silverlining48 Sat 24-Aug-24 19:12:00

As for boom gone, maybe bbc have learned from huw Edward’s et al. They were damned for not dealing with it quickly and no doubt there will be complaints about the speed this time.
We don’t know if there’s a background of other complaints and this may well be the last straw.

rafichagran Sat 24-Aug-24 19:23:07

Jemaine Jenus was wrong and very immature. I feel sorry for his wife. He states that they were texts between consenting women, who were not underage, this is no excuse he was wrong.

However it was texting, so sex, or young children involved. He was arrogant and deserved a sanction of some sort, but I think this could have been dealt with in a far better way, as stated above this is not the same as Huw Edwards.

silverlining48 Sat 24-Aug-24 19:27:48

None of us know the background and to be honest if that were my partner I wouldn’t forgive easily. It’s a betrayal of trust that would be hard to forget.

OldFrill Sat 24-Aug-24 19:28:12

rafichagran

Jemaine Jenus was wrong and very immature. I feel sorry for his wife. He states that they were texts between consenting women, who were not underage, this is no excuse he was wrong.

However it was texting, so sex, or young children involved. He was arrogant and deserved a sanction of some sort, but I think this could have been dealt with in a far better way, as stated above this is not the same as Huw Edwards.

I think he's misused the word "consenting" l think he means "adults over the age of consent". Obviously the women weren't "consenting as they injected.
He's not bright.