Chardy
I get irritated when singles or couples at/near retirement age get shown houses that require a car to go to the local shop or like today, have a garden ideal for a mountain goat. Do these folk think they're immune from getting older? Or do they imagine that when their eyesight or mobility gets so bad, they'll want the upheaval of moving house?
We bought our retirement home in a village, with a shop and a large garden when we were 53. We have lived here happily and successfully for 28 years needing a car to do almost every activity apart from top up shopping.
It is only in our early 80s that we are feeling the need to move, and that is mainly to live some where more convenient for our children, who, when we moved here, were still at university.
And, yes, this time we are aiming to live in the centre of a small town with all the services we may need within walking/buggy distance
Nowadays, longevity and modern medecine mean that more of us are living healthy and well lives until at least the age of 80, and, yes of course, a few friends have died younger and been ill from their 60s, but the majority of my friends are only gradually beginning to lead restricted lives after the age of 80.
Our house is for sale at the moment and quite a number of people viwing it have been much of an age we were when we moved here. Still working, but with children who are out of school and working or at university, who now have time for gardening and do not mind driving to to do things, now they are no longer a taxi service.