I saw the programme and was close to tears more than once. I would almost certainly have been diagnosed with ADD (not the hyperactive bit) if they had known how it presented in girls when I was young. As it was, I was called lazy and disorganised, despite being a relatively high achiever and managing to run a home, a full-time job and bring up two children with a husband who (although helpful when he was there) worked long and irregular hours. Women find strategies to cope, but some understanding would have made such a difference.
People talk about 'bandwagons' and 'overdiagnosis' (both were mentioned on the programme) but the new awareness of ADD has allowed me to be kinder to myself, and to understand why I do things the way I do. I don't behave worse than others, just a bit differently from many.
I particularly liked the analogy given by the young man - of a tombola machine in his brain, with all the things he could do written on different balls, and finding them pop up at random times - tidy the house, watch a boxset, cook a meal, ring mum, get dressed etc etc. Sometimes they pop up once an hour, but often I am not finished doing one thing when another interrupts. I always have several bits of knitting on the needles, as I'm not finished one project before another is demanding to be cast on, and the same applies to many other areas of life.
I am better at dealing with it now, and I won't join the queue for diagnosis as I'd rather leave a place for younger people who would benefit more - at my age I'll just continue to muddle through - but I absolutely support putting time and money into helping those who suffer from it. I'm happy enough with life as it is, but it would have been an easier road if there had been awareness when I was younger. I don't drive, which is a big inconvenience, but it wouldn't be safe for others if I did, as my concentration isn't great. Other than that, I've managed to find ways to make things work, and now I'm able to accept things for what they are, and not blame myself any more.
I don't, and have never, expected others to make allowances - I have limited patience with people who use conditions such as anxiety (from which I have suffered as a result of ADD - they go hand in hand) or whatever to opt out of things in ways that inconvenience others or expect them to do their jobs for them. Maybe if I had realised why that behaviour upset me so much (the fact that sometimes it was extremely difficult for me to meet deadlines, but I stayed up all night to do it, only to find that the day before the deadline someone was off sick with stress and I had to do her work before the deadline too) I would have spoken up against it and refused. Better awareness might make that easier for people in a similar position now.
Anyway, I will watch the others in the series, in the hope that I can learn to understand other conditions and be more understanding about those who live with them, and able to think about ways to allow everyone, however their brains work, to coexist without some ways being given priority over others.