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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 15-Nov-16 09:37:00

The sexuality of people over a certain age seems to be something of a taboo subject - but not for esteemed French psychologist Marie de Hennezel.

In her new book, Sex After Sixty: a French guide to loving intimacy, she looks at how emotional intimacy plays a huge role in maintaining a sex life as you age and how knowing how to take pleasure as it comes, rather than focussing on what could be, can be the key to a more erotic and satisfying sexuality.

She will be answering your questions on the above and more - simply leave them on this thread before Tuesday 29 November. Note that if you'd prefer to change your name for this, that is absolutely fine - just drop us a line at [email protected] and we can sort that out.

Marie de Hennezel is the author of two ministerial reports about caring for those with terminal illnesses, and has written ten books about growing older, including the Sunday Times top-5 bestseller The Warmth of the Heart Prevents Your Body from Rusting. Her books have been translated into 22 languages.

From attending Tantric workshops to interviewing dozens of sexually active older people, de Hennezel looks at the role that sex plays in our health and sets out on a quest to discover how you can continue to enjoy a satisfying sex life into old age. She brings her insight as a psychotherapist - along with her Gallic joie de vivre and frankness - to bear on a subject that has been brushed under the carpet for too long. Having seen the sexual revolution first-hand in France in the 1960s and 70s, today de Hennezel - born in 1946 - argues that it's time for a new sexual revolution, one which acknowledges that sex is important at any stage of adulthood, and which embraces many different ways of making love. In a society saturated by online porn and 'hook-up culture', reflecting on intimacy and learning from those who know how to make it last is more important than ever, making her book essential reading for lovers of any age.

Chewbacca Mon 06-Dec-21 01:19:57

You can be so peevish sometimes! grin

welbeck Mon 06-Dec-21 01:38:46

think he'd need to see the size of your bank balance first.
have you got a big one ? yes? you're in with a chance !

FarNorth Mon 06-Dec-21 01:40:07

Ooh! A middle-aged white man, my heart's desire! ?

MissAdventure Mon 06-Dec-21 01:44:57

I'd need a pre nup.
My statutory sick pay is at stake here.
92 quid a week...

Jane71 Mon 06-Dec-21 12:51:16

I've so enjoyed reading this thread as so many of the posts made me chuckle. Never thought I would laugh so much when I joined GN!

Single45guy Tue 26-Apr-22 11:46:53

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timetogo2016 Fri 03-Jun-22 16:45:53

Well it hasn`t stopped you reading the posts Shanma.
It`s a fun thread.
I`m off to buy red wine and a chastity belt as Dh is popping to the pub and comes home with a grin on his face.
I`m hoping the red wine will make me mmmmm.

Margomar Fri 26-Aug-22 19:18:04

My DH takes medication for hypertension, it seems to have killed off his libido. Prior to this we had sex about 3 times a month, it was great, very important to us emotionally but he needed help from Viagra which he bought himself. He’s shy of talking to a GP about it. He’s 77 and in fairly good shape, as am I ! I wonder if loss of sex drive is a known side effect of this medication ( Ramipril) ?

ixion Fri 26-Aug-22 19:30:38

Wow.
Just loving this thread!

Did all this really pass muster in 2016?
I'm impressed - but I do think it should come with a warning notice about the type of humour contained within, these days.