We are moving soon to an area we do not know and I am already lining up the oganisations we will join or volunteer with.
This is for the simple reason that although we will be nearer our children, making their journeys to visit us so much easier, we do not want to be burden them iunto being our ony social contacts - which is bad for our mental health anyway and the best way to get to know people in a new plac, like it or not, is to join things and volunteer.
I have always been involved in voluntary work of some kind until COVID, but in recent years I have found that recruitment processes have become cumbersome.
I understand the need for character and criminal record searches, but one charity I tried to work for said volunteers were needed urgently but asked me to do a course, fine , no problem, but couldn't get me on one for nearly 4 months. the same charity also had an arcane and complex computer system that would not run properly on my computer, but they had no means of giving me any IT help, even though I was happy to bring the compute5 into their offices. In the end DH spent a day on it and finally sorted the problem, but by that time I was so fed up by waiting for the course, which was grossly inadequate, having no help at all with my IT problems,Six mnths after I volunteered, I still hadn't started wor, so I decided against working with that Charity.