Going away for Xmas and lugging all the kids presents without giving away the santa thing . Along with all the winter clothes. I'd prefer to go for just a few days in the summer if it was on my list... but there you are, that's what they want to do. I think your daughter has to recognise that you are feeling torn and upset about this and you need to talk to her adult-to-adult about your dilemma. You are, if you don't mind me saying, coming across as someone who feels as if they are the only grown up in the family who has to support everyone and keep everyone happy. Hard habit to break I know.
Soutra you hit that particular nail on the head - maybe we need to start putting ourselves first in small ways, every day, and get back in the habit.
Fruit flies - help needed please.
Army horses loose on London streets
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.