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To have support for hospital appointment!

(64 Posts)
thatbags Sat 04-Jul-15 21:05:51

Question to hildajJ. Should've said.

thatbags Sat 04-Jul-15 21:05:04

That is a great idea, annsixty! Seriously, we should try and sort something, a sort of gransnet pal clan. I suppose the local sites would be the ideal place for such a thing.

Do you know any other gransnetters local to you?

Jane10 Sat 04-Jul-15 20:57:10

Great idea Ann60! Good luck anyway hilda - pretend we're all with you as virtual companions.

annsixty Sat 04-Jul-15 19:38:05

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annsixty Sat 04-Jul-15 19:36:56

Things do happen very quickly hilda even for any recalls. I do hope you can sort it it out. As said on another thread we could do with a gran's "hit squad" any one of us would spring into action to help in any situation if we could.[ flowers ]

hildajenniJ Sat 04-Jul-15 19:24:53

He's trying! There are so few of them now. After the disaster with the financial running of the company, they cut staff hours. Also it's holiday season. He hasn't got much time either, my appointment is on Tuesday and I just got the letter yesterday.

FarNorth Sat 04-Jul-15 19:17:42

Could he swap a shift with someone else?

janeainsworth Sat 04-Jul-15 18:54:03

Your DH should have a Statement of Terms and Conditions as part of his contract of employment hilda, which should cover things like that.
It seems unreasonable for his manager not to allow him to take either a day's holiday or a day's unpaid leave.

Luckygirl Sat 04-Jul-15 18:32:30

I am sorry that you have this added burden when you must be feeling anxious. I hope that all will be well at your appointment. This has happened to me twice and on both occasions all was well, but it did cause me some worry at the time.

hildajenniJ Sat 04-Jul-15 18:28:31

He is at work at present bags. I do not know what he asked specifically, but we are on holiday from the 12th. so I don't suppose he asked for a holiday day (if that makes any sense). I hope it is just an anomaly on the ex-ray, but we'll see.

hildajenniJ Sat 04-Jul-15 18:23:54

Yes he does. I have just sent off an email to the head of Human Resources telling her what I think. After all, one of the Co-op's Ethical Values is Caring for Others. I told her what I think of that. I hope she responds, but I won't hold my breath! Neither of my sisters are available. One lives in Newcastle but is going on holiday the next day so I won't bother her.

thatbags Sat 04-Jul-15 18:20:18

Did he ask for the day off as part of his holiday allowance? If so and it was refused that does seem unreasonable unless the manager has very specific and understandable reasons (such as shortage of essential staff on the day in question) for it.

Sorry you have to go by yourself. I hope the investigations do not show serious problems flowers.

merlotgran Sat 04-Jul-15 17:59:23

What a thoughtless bitch woman she is. Does he belong to a union?

hildajenniJ Sat 04-Jul-15 17:52:20

I have to have further investigations at hospital following my recent mammogram. I asked my DH to accompany me, as it is a full day affair. DH asked his manager at work for the day off. She said no, and if he took the day off it would result in disciplinary action! Is this common policy in every workplace? One of the ethical values of the Co-op is "caring for others". This does not sound very caring to me. Well, I'll just have to go by myself on the bus.