Gransnet is funny. When people complain about problems with the partners and families of offspring, people say: Back off; live your own life! When people complain about offspring not liking them getting on with their own lives, people say: Consider the adult children!
Yes, I know, but a young adult with problems may need a bit more careful handling.
Antagonising a daughter who is clearly disturbed by the prospect of her mother re-marrying will cause more problems in the long term. I am not saying that Ziggy should put any of her plans on hold, but just a couple of heart-to heart chats may help.
It's good that Ziggy's DD gets on well with her prospective step-father. Perhaps her DB can have a word with her to find out what is upsetting her about the marriage and set her mind at rest.
Good Morning Tuesday 30th April 2024