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How often do you check your phone?

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mrsmopp Fri 02-Sep-16 18:40:54

For text messages or emails? I seem to expect most people to check at regular intervals during the day. Isn't that about the norm?
I ask because the normal phone is impossible for me due to my profound deafness. So I rely on text or email and my friends and family all understand this.
Except for one friend and we get on great but she only looks at her messages about once a week!! So I might text or email, say, on Saturday, asking if she'd like to meet for coffee on Friday (plenty of notice, yes?)
Then I get no reply at all. Friday comes and I finally get a text saying See you in Costa in half an hour!!
So I drop everything, scramble to get ready and then she is 20 minutes late. I have to hide my exasperation because I really like her except for this which is typical. I asked her today if she preferred text or email and apparently she doesn't really like either and her laptop is upstairs In the spare room. Grrrrrrr
Maybe I should get a carrier pigeon? Or write a letter? How last century is that??,!

Eloethan Fri 02-Sep-16 22:38:25

If I hear it "ping" I check for text messages. Otherwise, it can be some time before I think to check my phone. I suppose my reasoning is that if someone needed to speak to me urgently they'd ring rather than text or e-mail. As you can't hear the phone mrsmopp, I can see why texts are your only way of getting in touch. Does your friend realise this - have you told her?

SueDonim Fri 02-Sep-16 22:50:25

Only when I'm out because I live in a black hole as far as signal is concerned. Then when I venture somewhere, my phone is going 'ping ping' as the messages that have been backed up in th system all come through at once.

Allegedly, we're being upgraded to 4G in the coming weeks. I'll believe it when I see it.

ninathenana Fri 02-Sep-16 22:50:31

I'm checking mine now !
I switch on first thing in the morning and post on the GN Good morning thread. I will then check. e-mails and FB all on my phone. Probably check it 4-5 times during the day. Or more if I get a text alert.

Craftycat Sat 03-Sep-16 10:21:25

I am still laughing at Badenkate's post!!
I have my phone to hand at all times & in the car it is on Bluetooth so I can answer it without having to touch anything. It is my lifeline too as Pittcity says.
It makes a sound for each person who sends anything so I know when to look but sometimes if it hasn't made a noise for a while I check it anyway. I use it for checking texts & email too.
I resisted having a mobile for ages until about 8 years ago I was ordered to get one as I walked the dog by myself all though woods etc & my sons insisted. A week later a friend of mine fell on Reigate Heath while walking her dog & broke her ankle. She had to wait over an hour before anyone heard her calling out so I got the pint after that.
Having said this I am not the person who walks around chatting on the phone all the time while shopping etc. I prefer to wait until I can sit in peace to make a call unless it is urgent.

gettingonabit Sat 03-Sep-16 10:26:19

All the time. Rarely off it. Like now.

Jaycee5 Sat 03-Sep-16 10:28:39

I think I would be inclined to text back 'sorry but as I didn't hear from you I made other arrangements'. She doesn't sound very considerate but probably doesn't realise it.

Seasidenana Sat 03-Sep-16 10:29:29

My iPhone is in constant use as I have everything on it finance, social media, Internet, radio, I player, kindle app, etc. I always have it with me wherever I go and I respond to messages as they arrive. It goes on silent when I'm in a meeting or social event. Phone calls and texts are a small part of what I use it for. I have the big iPhone and find the bigger screen really good for web surfing and reading.

I had a recent holiday where there was no phone signal and no wifi. It nearly drove me potty !

Those of you who think you couldn't manage a smart phone - you could. It's no more difficult than a computer or a tablet. My parents manage very well and they are in their 80s.

pollyperkins Sat 03-Sep-16 10:39:20

Badenkate ha ha!!! im on my iphone all the time checking emails facebook texts whatsapp and of course Gransnet!!
Much easier than husbads laptop. Ipad is easiest but cant get Whatsapp on it and thats how i keep in touch with the family!

pollyperkins Sat 03-Sep-16 10:40:12

By all the time I mean several times a day! I do do other things!

henetha Sat 03-Sep-16 10:41:14

I am addicted to my phone and check it all the time. Can't imagine how I ever managed without a smart phone.

harrigran Sat 03-Sep-16 11:33:33

I look at my phone if it rings end of.

Blondehedgehog Sat 03-Sep-16 12:08:00

I have had a phone since they were bricks. I bought it for safety when I am out of the house. I never hear it ring, it is in my bag, I don't want to carry it in my hand all the time like young people do.
I wish we could go back to before the mobile phone got so popular. I hate being with people who are fiddling with their phones all the time instead of talking to the people around them.

Barrowlass Sat 03-Sep-16 12:18:28

Wonderful gadgets, when they work! Putting whole calendar, phone numbers, addresses and the like works well until phone decides to throw a wobbler. Have a 'back up' LG cookie that will take my sim card just in case.

Peaseblossom Sat 03-Sep-16 12:22:28

Why not have it charging in the living room, then you will hear if messages are coming through.

felice Sat 03-Sep-16 12:41:54

I have a very simple Nokia which will probably be with me for life, I can call on it, receive phone calls send and receive texts.
Suits me just fine, and a getting elderly laptop, still works so thats fine by me.

Diddy1 Sat 03-Sep-16 12:53:28

My children ask why I have a phone, as I never answer,I check it when I turn it on in the morning, or when I hear the recieved message sound, I dont want to be constantly available. On the other hand, when I am at home I love to check e mails, FB, and of course GN, my favourite.
Read in Womans Weekly before starting on GN, that this kind of thing is good to keep ones mind alert,and I think it is true, I love it.

moobox Sat 03-Sep-16 12:55:36

every few minutes at the moment as yet another pic of my new grandson comes through on iMessage! Nice though.

ClaraB Sat 03-Sep-16 13:08:21

Far too often, I am always on it!

Shizam Sat 03-Sep-16 13:28:58

I rather resent the assumption by some people that I should immediately respond to calls/texts that they make to me. I don't HAVE to jump to attention just because I have a phone.

Sheilasue Sat 03-Sep-16 13:55:56

Phone is either on the table next to my chair or in my bag when I go out and of a night on my bedside cabinet.

Diddy1 Sat 03-Sep-16 14:48:17

Totally agree with Shizam

VIOLETTE Sat 03-Sep-16 14:51:32

Ha Ha ! a timely post ! just opened up GN and saw this ...and realised my phone battery had run out ....so thanks for that ! It is now charging ! by the way, I always forget about it completely !

M0nica Sat 03-Sep-16 15:24:11

My mobile lives in my car because mobile reception is so poor in my village. We live in the much vaunted technological hot spot called The Science Vale and however well businesses do, the local villages struggle with rubbish mobile reception and 'fast' broadband yet to break 1 Mb

emilie Sat 03-Sep-16 15:37:31

I only have a landline,check it about once a week

Sandy638865 Sat 03-Sep-16 17:21:13

I have my mobile in pocket at all times as have an app to record my steps and it keeps me fit. Also like to answer texts and emails promptly. I have to have wifi when on holiday or I feel lost. Nearly as bad as the youngsters!!