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To not like New Year Celebrations?

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phoenix Sun 31-Dec-17 15:15:18

Hello all, and sending every good wish.

I will not say that I hate New Year stuff, rather a strong emotion to waste on something so unimportant and fleeting.

However, I really can't be doing with all the hype, it's just a time of day and a number.

But what really gets my goat (and perhaps this should be in Pedants Corner) is when people ask "And what are you doing for New YearS?) Deliberate capital.

"New Years" is not a complete phrase. New Years Eve, New Years Day, yes, but NOT New Years!

By all means, celebrate if you want to (I live very near to a town that regularly appears on the top places to celebrate NYE, when I went shopping there on Friday there were already Police notices up that the main street would be closed from around 4pm today shock) but please remember that on Tuesday the world will not have significantly changed, so all your kissing and hugging, and "let's hope that this year is better than the last" might not count for much.

That said, I would like to send all of you my very best wishes for the future, especially those that have lost someone special this year, be it husband, partner, child, relative or pet, thinking of you all,

Phoenix

Overthehills Sun 31-Dec-17 22:10:14

In bed with the cat on my lap! Happy New Year everybody!

trisher Sun 31-Dec-17 22:30:31

Thanks for the info about the New Year Bank Holiday. I knew it wasn't a holiday in England but couldn't remember when it happened. I do remember my first New Years Day in Newcastle in the 60s. I was so surprised to find all the shops stayed shut. Think it was something that spread down from Sotland. I used to party then. Now I can't be bothered. Happy New Year all.

phoenix Mon 01-Jan-18 00:17:07

Well, here I am , Hootenanny on the tv, Mr P gone to bed, . (Well I think that's were he is wink ) Not even wished each other Happy New Year!

But the world will not stop turning, and as was said in "Gone With The Wind" "Tomorrow is another day" !

Best wishes to all

grumppa Mon 01-Jan-18 00:46:10

Happy New Year to all, even the Brexiteers.

millymouge Mon 01-Jan-18 08:28:16

thank you [Bethsheba]

Christinefrance Mon 01-Jan-18 09:05:13

Happy New Year Gransnetters everywhere. I hope its a peaceful year and we are all as healthy and happy as we can be. wine

Fennel Mon 01-Jan-18 10:04:52

When we were a lot younger we enjoyed first-footing. Husband used to have jet black hair so was suitable for the job. Carrying a piece of coal. I don't know the origin of this tradition.
Like the rest of you, now we don't do anything special.
It feels different today though, somehow.
All the best to all for 2018.

Fennel Mon 01-Jan-18 10:07:37

ps I've just noticed there's another thread about this.

jenpax Mon 01-Jan-18 10:23:52

Happy and healthy New Year to all.
I didn’t stay up,but as I was on my own yesterday, it seemed a bit silly?but I don’t feel I missed out. I will be popping the champers today and enjoying a lovely lunch ??

NotAGran55 Mon 01-Jan-18 19:22:03

Ha ha Phoenix !

Were you being ironic when you typed Pedants Corner , New Years Eve and New Years Day ?
Did you deliberately miss the apostrophe each time smile

Jalima1108 Mon 01-Jan-18 19:28:27

And best wishes to you too phoenix and everyone
throughout this New Year[s]

Just waiting for 'Valentines' now grin

123flump Mon 08-Jan-18 13:34:32

One year as the clocks struck midnight and the start of the new year I was walking into the maternity hospital. Most exciting new year celebrations ever.

paddyann Mon 08-Jan-18 14:37:11

Fennel Ideally a first foot should carry a few things ,coal so you'll always be warm,salt to represent salary as it was used to trade with in ancient times,food ,usually shortbread or what we call bun...madeira or fruit cake ..for obvious reasons ..so we always have food and Whisky though it was other drinks before whisky appeared .I use the same piece of coal my late dad uses to first foot us the first New Year of our married life 43 years ago..its put carefully away with a wee bag of salt every year and I make sure our first foot has it before crossing our threshold.Wishing you all a Guid New Year ,a 2018 filled with all youd wish yourselves,Health ,happiness and prosperity .

jeanie99 Mon 08-Jan-18 15:25:05

Just do what you would do on any day and the rest float over your head.
Life is too short for getting stressed about something so trivial.

Deedaa Wed 10-Jan-18 16:20:53

I used to enjoy New Year's Eve when I worked behind a bar. It was always a ticket only event, so fairly civilised and the customers were all cheerful and generally liberal with their tips! Now I don't work I can't really see the point of going out when I could just have a quick drink and go to bed!