Well when we have a society that actually values women rather than laughs at them or thinks they ask for it maybe we can have a different conversation - all the sexual harassment that is tolerated, condoned, blamed on women - no wonder men have a sense of entitlement and a right to power over women. What message does porn on an MPs computer send to men? What message does Boris defending Toby send to men? What message do many posters on GN send to men? The message is that women ask for it, that they are responsible for whatever men do to them, that they have to change. Not men. When Theresa May has the bloody courage to sack Toby Young then maybe I’ll begin to believe that things might change but otherwise, forget it. It’s all a woman’s fault.