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to ask why several prominent members seem to have vanished?!?

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jura2 Mon 09-Apr-18 16:44:10

Could anyone help here - some long serving and very interesting members seem to have just vanished. How did that happen. DJ, GGMK2 and WW. Where? and Why?

janeainsworth Fri 27-Apr-18 17:03:15

Ah thanks atqui smile

SylviaPlathssister Thu 03-May-18 19:09:39

I have named changed

Baggs Thu 03-May-18 19:36:50

Two sisters of Persephone.

BlueBelle Thu 03-May-18 20:19:10

Isn’t she commit ssuicide ?

Jalima1108 Thu 03-May-18 20:26:00

But perhaps her sister didn't.
If she had one.

Iam64 Thu 03-May-18 20:31:52

I make no apologies for going back a few posts.
Chewbacca! Am I right in remembering you may be a north west woman? I had the same hair change in 1978. From long, very straight, hippy type hair to a perm. It changed my life. I went from perm to very short, I think the proper description is elfin cut.
Did you stay permed? Did you go very short. I confess, my extremely short hair cut coincided with divorce and real involvement in feminist activities. Fabulous years.
Isn't life grand. Don't we all welcome change.

Bridgeit Thu 03-May-18 20:32:39

Perhaps she may resurface

Jalima1108 Thu 03-May-18 20:33:25

When I had my Supreme Commander cut it was when DM was visiting.
She giggled when she saw it and giggled every time she looked at me.
I thought I looked just fine
hmm

Chewbacca Thu 03-May-18 20:51:43

Well remembered Iam64! Nooooo! I didn't keep the perm. When I think back to the torture of them, I wonder where my common sense was! I've always had masses of hair (hence my nic name) and perms just added even more to the volume! My hair was like a Brillo pad by the 1980s! Like you, I chopped it off and went for the choppy elfin cut which I was reliably informed by a posh hairdresser was actually called "au savage"! grin

Iam64 Thu 03-May-18 21:23:36

Oh, I wasn't at such a posh hairdresser Chewbacca. Mine turned to colleagues and said "it's what she wanted" as though I was off my trolley. On reflection, there may have been some truth in that but I never regretted my very short hair and felt liberated by it.
This thread has really wandered hasn't it

Chewbacca Thu 03-May-18 21:31:13

It was in Lewis's Iam! Salon was on the top floor, right at the back. I miss Lewis's

Yes, you're right, we've meandered quite a bit grin

Iam64 Thu 03-May-18 21:37:57

Wow, in Lewis's - I'd pushed the boat out and gone to a Vidal Sassoon salon near St Anne's Square. I felt very posh indeed, despite my dungarees !

Chewbacca Thu 03-May-18 21:46:02

Now that was posh! Dungarees! Oh how I loved my dungarees! With rolled up hems!

annodomini Thu 03-May-18 21:57:40

In the early 80s I had a curly perm and, looking at the photos of the time now, I simply cringe! My hair has always had a mind of its own and been the despair of most hairdressers. I have never been able to grow it long as it's very fine and blow-away. About 20 years ago, I had highlights which looked good but I got fed up having to have the roots done every few weeks and now it's mostly silver anyway.

Iam64 Thu 03-May-18 22:00:31

anno, I had poker straight hair until my 40's, when it began to curve, a bit, inconsistently and not in a good way. I longed to have one of those stylish bobs you see but this was never possible. I had highlights and found myself turning blonde. I gave it up and now have an equally short hair cut to the one I had in the 70's except its silver and grey. Very liberating not to colour.

Fennel Fri 04-May-18 10:41:33

Talking about hairstyles, I like the cut that Helen Mirren has now, and her hair's nearly white.

pensionpat Fri 04-May-18 10:47:55

And Julie Walters. I aspire to have my hair like hers. Well I have the right colour. It's a start.