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AIBU to think this is unbelievably selfish

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fruitloop Wed 04-Jul-18 10:20:00

Sorry it is another neighbour one. We live in a terrace and have small gardens. On one side our neighbours have three young children. They also have a trampoline which is not in itself an issue but they let the children play on it whenever they want. At the moment this is from 6am every day of the week. The squeak squeak squeak of the springs is a bit annoying at any time as it is relentless and loud but obviously I wouldn't think of complaining about this as it is what it is. The sound of children having fun is a good sound most of the time but shrieking children and squeaky springs at 6am when we are asleep or want to be asleep because there is no chance with it going on is driving us slowly mad. The neighbours are fairly new and we have not yet built a relationship with them so can't just have a friendly word over the fence. What to do?

Hm999 Sun 08-Jul-18 13:40:56

DGD (just turned 2) loves to clap a song, not sure how well it went down when she clapped at the end of the hymns in church the other Sunday.

FlexibleFriend Sun 08-Jul-18 14:11:15

I think you're justified to feel miffed at being disturbed at 6 am. Jeez I won't let my dogs out before 7.30 because one is a barker and I think before 7.30 is an unreasonable time to be disturbed. Unfortunately some people don't give a second thought to anyone but themselves and their needs irrespective of age.

Jalima1108 Sun 08-Jul-18 14:14:51

Hm999 I hope it went down very well - otherwise I would find another church!
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4allweknow Sun 08-Jul-18 17:23:35

WD40 for the springs. The screaming/ shrieking is generally due to more than one child being allowed on at once contrary to the safety guidance. One child at a time generally doesn't make a noise. 6 am is definitely too early. Ask if they can keep the kids quiet until 8a bit more reasonable time.

chrissyh Fri 27-Jul-18 16:52:24

Would never let my children into the garden until about 8.30 - especially at the weekend. I looked after our DCC overnight last weekend and they wanted to go into the hot tub (theirs not mine) and I said not until after 9. They obviously do a lot of squealing and I know how I'd feel if I wanted a bit of lie-in. 6 am is definitely not on. I know some are saying have a quiet word but I don't think the parents are reasonable if they let that happen.

alchemilla Tue 07-Aug-18 19:39:31

I don't understand the squealing either. Or shrieking. My DCs weren't angelic by a longshot. But they didn't squeal or shriek in the garden - even when playing games. a "yes"for a good shot or whatever. Ditto the seaside = a squeal when they got in to cold water but otherwise to intent on enjoying themselves. Perhaps it's a family thing?

MissAdventure Tue 07-Aug-18 20:36:48

The teen girls coming out of the school near me all seem to shriek too.