I'm gonna say it -your house :your rules! She's acting like a teen again ,I can understand her but whilst she's living with you she needs to find some common manners! I'm sure you brought her up better than her current rudeness!? Also, in the light of tragic losses of young women to the monsters that are out there, safety should be a priority, tell her you're not interested in her social life but in her life continuing so in future maybe a heads up that's she actually safe will be given? How would she like her own DD to not keep her in safety loop?.......
Humza Yusaf's resignation speech