Cabbie21
I find it sad when someone wants to share a genuine worry for them, that others say she is lucky to have a husband, and one who is willing to share some chores. Not just on this thread.
We all have our worries, and they are different for different people. Some answers have given useful pointers which may help the OP, not beat her with a stick.
Yes, I agree with you. I once met a lady who was divorced but very bitter and when I mentioned that I had had no sleep as hubby was snoring, she said I was very lucky to have a husband to keep me awake snoring. Still, didn't help the fact that I was tired. I thought about it and thought she was rather self righteous. As you say, different worries for different people.