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19 months and not talking.

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jessie1608 Wed 29-Feb-12 23:30:32

We have my husbands grandchildren aged almost four, and nineteen months, to stay for the weekend once a month.
The younger child appears bright but does not say a single word. Nor does she babble. In fact, she makes very little sound at all. She does smile but her laughter is silent.
Husband has had a word with the daughter in law and she says the health visitor is due soon and she will mention it.
I think that a bit more pro-active action is called for, and if there is a problem, we can start tackling it.
Has anyone else got experience of a child of this age who is almost silent?

numberplease Tue 03-Apr-12 01:24:22

Oh, OK.

bagitha Tue 03-Apr-12 08:43:55

I haven't found any offensive posts. Abrupt ones, yes, and ones that might be a little surprising (also amusing when you let your imagination work on them) but that's not the same thing. My own feeling is to cut a little slack and perhaps argue back. I find it refreshing to have a different point of view chucked into a thread, even if I don't agree with it or think it's odd.

Carol Tue 03-Apr-12 09:32:47

You might have missed a few bags. GNHQ have had words!

Oxon70 Tue 03-Apr-12 09:37:23

The one on the genealogy section is a real threadstopper...

Carol Tue 03-Apr-12 09:43:21

I don't have a single problem with funny postings smile

bagitha Tue 03-Apr-12 10:02:21

OK, but the one on here isn't offensive so why was it reported?

Carol Tue 03-Apr-12 10:07:14

pm'd you bags

granbunny Tue 03-Apr-12 19:26:52

gnhq might well have had words with some posters here, but no-one has had words with me. i look forward to hearing from these mysterious people.

granbunny Tue 03-Apr-12 20:04:55

update!

no 'having words' (maybe a little bit of 'be more cautious about...') but several messages of support including one from mysterious beings. smile

wotsamashedupjingl Tue 03-Apr-12 20:18:41

Oh that's just not fair! I've been in trouble loads of times and I've never had any words of support from the Mysterious Beings. (That's a good name for them. I like that! smile)

wotsamashedupjingl Tue 03-Apr-12 20:18:59

envy

bagitha Tue 03-Apr-12 20:21:43

Heh! heh! I like it too. It's a very good name for them, gbun smile. You don't mind me shortening your name, I hope? Saves a bit of typing is all. And then I can rabbit on.... oops! wink

jeni Tue 03-Apr-12 20:23:00

Ouch!

granbunny Tue 03-Apr-12 20:32:13

gbun suits me fine. daughter and grandaughter (in her baby way) call me 'guh'...