Hi Mrs Milk
Congratulations on your adopted little ones.
We do get posts similar to yours from time to time and the general consensus appears to be - be careful. If you belong to a church, or even if you don't - maybe you could approach a local one, see if they have a mothers ' union - members likely to be granny age. No intention of offending any younger members btw. Or how about getting to know some neighbours, elderly ones, but young enough to enjoy children. Perhaps they could join you on outings? I'm not suggesting you ask them to child sit. Above all, approach with caution and get to know people well.