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kircubbin2000 Mon 17-Jun-19 13:39:49

Looking round the house this morning I noticed that every room looked untidy.I had to go out this morning but now that I am home I'm too tired to tidy and just want to get on with reading the paper and catching up with the online world.

Swanny Tue 18-Jun-19 11:36:11

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who would rather read or go out than dust/polish/vacuum/wash floors/iron/weed the flowers grin

Forgoodnesssake Tue 18-Jun-19 11:40:06

Fantastic response doodle. Exactly what I do. Makes everything less ‘chore like’

Houndi Tue 18-Jun-19 11:47:32

A immaculate house isa sign of awasted life.My brother sent me this poster i love it.It has a mouse with a broom lifting up the carpet and sweeping dust under it.To me friends come to see me but not a house its always clean but not a showroom.I remember years ago reading a child always remember the time you played with him and not a ironed jumper.

Craftycat Tue 18-Jun-19 11:47:32

With 4 cats I have to hoover everyday. Sometimes twice in the living room
DH is REALLY untidy but I cannot clear his mess up as he would have a fit & I'd probably lose something ( not by accident either!!).
I tend to blitz one room at a time although the kitchen, Bathroom & Cloakroom do get 'done' every day- even if just quickly.

Theoddbird Tue 18-Jun-19 11:51:12

Brilliant idea lmm6. My priorities on my two days off Are emptying the toilet cassette and filling water tank. Then there is shopping and family visits. Housework...hahaha. I would rather sit and sew on the riverbank...and I do. Life is better spent with simple pleasures than cleaning....

Saggi Tue 18-Jun-19 11:52:52

Hoover when I ‘see’ a mess ...don’t iron anymore... clean bathroom twice a week...wash up immediately something’s dirty ....mop floors when needed....grocery shop on-line. I intend to enjoy as much as possible what’s left of my life. The next person who owns this house can do as they please...HOUSEWORK....invented by men to keep women busy, busy, busy and tied to the home!!

ReadyMeals Tue 18-Jun-19 12:10:50

Same as most people I think - kitchens and bathrooms first, then other rooms if I still feel up to it.

GreenGran78 Tue 18-Jun-19 12:27:22

Sara65 You can’t remember which rooms you’ve cleaned? If they are obviously in need of cleaning, then clean them. If not, then let well alone. That’s my method, anyway.

Minerva Tue 18-Jun-19 12:32:13

After reading all these posts I am feeling so much better about the room whose door is always kept closed and the shopping bag hidden under the kitchen table which has in it everything that comes through the letterbox or is left behind by the grandchildren.

BonnieBlooming Tue 18-Jun-19 12:57:21

My morning routine is to tidy the kitchen, wipe worktops etc. Then floors, Hoover and mop kitchen. We have 2 labradors both of whom are moulting at the moment so by lunch time you wouldn't know I had bothered! I may have load of washing on while I do this. I always then make the bed and clean the bathroom. I have this routine down about 3/4 hour. Things like windows are done once in a while, ironing about twice week. I actually enjoy housework ( I know - I need to get a life) and although I do have health problems can be fairly active for reasonable periods of time. I'm also perfectionist and nobody can do it my standards. I do allow DH to do the floors now and again ?

grandtanteJE65 Tue 18-Jun-19 13:33:59

I wash up once daily after breakfast, make the beds and check the bathroom.

Clean toilet and hand basin once a week, do the job properly, floor, bath, shelves once a month.

Empty bins the day before collection. Hoover sitting -room weekly, upstairs once a month. Wash when dirty clothes basket is full.

We try to keep the clutter down, so we can tidy up in 15 minutes.

Love your idea lmm

lovebeigecardigans1955 Tue 18-Jun-19 15:59:38

That's a great idea 1mm6 about the bag - one which I shall copy. I do my housework in small batches so that it isn't overwhelming. I like to keep the kitchen and bathroom clean and tidy, then vac the carpet, curtains and chairs weekly (dark cat + pale furniture) and pick up as and when.

sharon103 Tue 18-Jun-19 16:02:27

I'm not as spick and span as I used to be. When it gets on my nerves then i'll do it. Always wash up and clean worktops. Try to keep up with the washing and ironing. Downstairs gets priority. I move like a bat out of hell when I know my sister who lives a long way off and only see 2-3 times a year is coming for the day. Not that she would take any notice. She doesn't have the time to keep up with it all in her house. I guess I could put the hoover round more often but I do keep clean and tidy (ish) on the whole. I would rather be out on the garden these days.

Sheilagh Tue 18-Jun-19 16:24:20

Don’t put it down put it away is my motto, it works for me although I do sound a bit smug.
It’s the way I was brought up is my excuse.

Grammaretto Tue 18-Jun-19 17:06:29

I would love to live in a clean and tidy house but it is never going to happen.
I've just had to clear out an entire room, including disposing of the carpet, while the floor was sanded and varnished.
It now looks beautiful but only half the contents have gone back in. The rest are still cluttering up other parts of the house. hmm
I would like to part with most of this but can I get DH to agree? Especially as most of the stuff is his.
Meanwhile, while I ponder this dilemma, I'm on here, reading, relaxing and drinking tea! brew

Happysexagenarian Tue 18-Jun-19 17:11:20

Worktops, hob, and kitchen sink cleaned every day.
Toilets and basins, twice a week, showers once a fortnight.
I vacuum when the dog hair starts to collect around the edges of the rooms.
Our bedroom gets vacuumed twice a week, and guest rooms before guests arrive.
Laundry and ironing is done when I've nothing more interesting to do, or we run out of clothes!
I've never been a particularly good housekeeper, there are far more interesting ways to fill my time. Our house is 'livably' clean not a show home.

Sara65 Tue 18-Jun-19 17:24:44

GreenGran

Good advice, but I think I worry about everything spiralling out of control, with the whole house being in need of a good clean, and so little time to do it

Okay, I know it’s neurotic!

SparklyGrandma Tue 18-Jun-19 17:33:16

Clean clothes, clean kitchen, dishes and bathroom are priorities.

Wooden floors/ posh Lino mean a quick sweep with a broom or mop cleaners the floors.

Everything else is tidy or can wait.

Graygirl Tue 18-Jun-19 17:34:10

Never leave a room empty handed,put things for upstairs on stairs, one room a day proper clean but only work max four hours with minimum two coffee breaks, five day week then two lazy days pick your own mine are Sunday and Monday

Barmeyoldbat Tue 18-Jun-19 17:58:22

What housework takes priority? None. The priority is how I feel, if I want to go out for the day I go, if, as I did the other wet cold day just want to lie on the settee and read then I did. I have low energy levels due to a medical condition so the priority is me. Never been ill through a dirty or untidy house a house. don't waste your life on doing what you don't want to do is my message.

petra Tue 18-Jun-19 18:44:16

Sheilagh
I'm exactly the same. That's why I spend a relatively small amount of time on housework.
As for cleaning the toilet and washbasin once a week: that's just plain dirty.?
an immaculate house is a sign of a wasted life
Absolute tosh!!! That's the polite expression ?

Theoddbird Tue 18-Jun-19 18:51:29

Petra... I think your comment on someone else's cleaning habits...you used the word dirty...was very wrong. What suits one does not suit another.

NanaSuzy Tue 18-Jun-19 19:40:24

For years I'v worked an 'upstairs, downstairs' system, ie cleaning the upstairs one week, downstairs the next. Ensures that it isn't always the same bit getting cleaned. Priorities are 1. Food, 2. clean clothes, 3. cleaning house. Actual priority for me is the garden anyway!

Callistemon Tue 18-Jun-19 19:42:10

I used to whiz through the whole house on one day (as well as doing a few loads of washing).

Where did that woman go?

Toilets, basins, kitchen sink etc - every day!

Grammaretto Tue 18-Jun-19 19:52:39

I think you can be too clean. Some families I know are so hygenically clean, including wiping babies' faces with wet wipes, that they don't have much resistance to infection and get everything going. Particularly tummy bugs.
A peck of dirt before you die goes the old adage. I'm a believer.