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glassortwo Thu 28-Sep-17 22:36:03

Sorry its late in the day!

Happy birthday Jingle , hope you have had a fantastic day with lots of cake.

glassortwo Fri 29-Sep-17 19:41:58

I'm looking for the like button merlot

etheltbags1 Fri 29-Sep-17 21:17:27

Jingl, my old adversary. What on earth have you done, happy birthday anywayx

Agus Fri 29-Sep-17 21:34:09

GN isn't the same without you Jings sad

Belated but Many Happy Returns

Lisalou Fri 29-Sep-17 22:11:46

Happy Birthday Jings, as has been sa¡d, you are sadly missed by us all xx

Jane10 Sat 30-Sep-17 06:46:11

Slightly off topic but, in the spirit of absent friends, granjura sends greetings to those who might remember her.

NanKate Sat 30-Sep-17 07:41:16

I think HQ are very mean spirited not to allow Jing back, if that was the case. Yes she ruffled feathers but it was fun to have her there.

Hello to Granjura I hope she went of her own volition.

Stansgran Sat 30-Sep-17 08:33:39

Hello too to Granjura. I don't go to Geneva often now. I miss her encouragement.

Baggs Sat 30-Sep-17 08:54:41

Yo! Jings! Was the cake good? ?

Synonymous Fri 06-Oct-17 19:24:28

When I saw Jingle on the thread I thought she was back again - but no!! What a disappointment!

Glad you had a lovely birthday anyway jings and many happy returns - in every way!smile

Jomarie Fri 06-Oct-17 23:05:01

Jings - you made me feel welcome and "normal" and gave me the impetus to post on GN - have missed your pithy comments so much and have not bothered with GN much since you left. Happy birthday you old boot. grin

Notme Fri 06-Oct-17 23:09:19

Cake was delicious thanks Baggs.

Notme Fri 06-Oct-17 23:09:55

Shite!!! I didn't say that. shock blush

merlotgran Fri 06-Oct-17 23:43:55

grin

baubles Sat 07-Oct-17 06:55:33

grin

Baggs Sat 07-Oct-17 07:02:42

grin

kittylester Sat 07-Oct-17 07:06:28

gringrin

Imperfect27 Sat 07-Oct-17 07:24:22

Tsk. Here comes trouble ... grin

DanniRae Sat 07-Oct-17 07:36:34

confused

Anya Sat 07-Oct-17 08:02:23

wink

kittylester Sat 07-Oct-17 08:04:41

Ssssshhhhh!

morethan2 Sat 07-Oct-17 08:32:38

? will you ever be allowed out the naughty corner(hope so)

BBbevan Sat 07-Oct-17 08:45:02

Even real criminals get parole, or time off for good behaviour. So it is about time Jings case was reviewed, I think. After all this is GN not the penal system

Imperfect27 Sat 07-Oct-17 09:20:42

So, I am going to address the elephant in the room (hello Mr Elephant) ... I only overlapped with Jings for a short while the first time I joined GN over a year ago, but she nearly stopped me from staying for good.

I encountered this 'whirlwind' who could be very spikey, deliberately provocative and rude, and, unfortunately, at times, malicious. If dear Jings was ever called out on her atrocious behaviour there was an army of supporters who either made excuses for her where sometimes her behaviour was inexcusable, or actually joined in with her lead.

Mischief is one thing. And *Jings, I truly did see the humour - sometimes - but people seem to forget there was also a lot of plain nastiness too, quickly followed by an injured' What have I done?' if people reacted badly.

Jings, honestly, you presented as a troubled person who needed to show more care and you hurt and upset a lot of people. Have I missed some aspects of the 'biting' humour / sarcasm / opinion? ...well, you added spice for sure, but I think people have very short memories and are in danger of turning you into a GN legend for all the wrong reasons.

Welcome back indeed if you can curb the nastiness that sometimes dominated, but I cannot join in the great 'celebration' wholeheartedly. I hope you can understand what went wrong for you - and those you took to needling in the past. I do think you have a great wit, but I do hope, if you are coming back to us, that it is less sharp in future.

merlotgran Sat 07-Oct-17 09:39:18

One question, I'mperfect27

What happened to the other 26?

Maggiemaybe Sat 07-Oct-17 09:41:36

I can't agree, Imperfect. Perhaps I shared the same humour as Jings, but I never saw the deliberate nastiness you saw. I see it now on far too many threads in one or two GNers who have neither wit nor style, just a determination to put others down.