Having a bad day.

It is unbearable but it is the price we pay for loving our children , I am praying for strength for you to get through this awful time xxx

Oh merlot how hard for you all. It's horrendous. It doesn't make it any easier to know others go through this. I watched my 16 year old nephew being destroyed by leukaemia. You are right it's so hard and you feel totally helpless.

Oh merlot there are no words.
I so wish I could lift your mood but all I can do is send you a virtual ((hug))

So sorry to hear this merlot, really don't know what to say.

I cannot begin to imagine how you must feel with something as terrible as this happening merlot. I am so sad for you. x

Oh merlot, my heart goes out to you, I wish there was something I could say or do to help, but I cannot pretend to have any inkling of the hell you are going through. I wish you courage and serenity and have you and your family in my thoughts

Words are not enough but I'm deeply sorry for your daughter's and your family's situation.
I hope, whatever your beliefs, that you can find strength to hold it all together, in the knowledge that those who will be caring for your precious daughter will do all in their power to make her life comfortable and pain free.
Take care of yourself too at this painful time.

Huge hugs to you and your husband, I am so sorry to read this.

So sorry, merlot. Your heart must be breaking.

I am so sorry to hear this, merlot. Take care of yourself and your lovely family. ?

So sorry to hear this and so sad for you and your family

Thank you everyone. I've just realised I said I was avoiding the sad threads then created another one.

Sorry. I don't want to bring anyone down.

Sending my sincerest wishes, my sympathy to you and all your family and my hopes that you can somehow sustain each other through this dark time.

merlot . I am so saddened to hear this latest news of your daughter. Heartfelt thoughts to you all.?

I don’t know what to say Merlot except that I am so sad for you and your DD. You will find your strength from somewhere, just let yourself rest today. x

merlogran, I can only imagine what you are going through I am so very sorry to read your news and can only send you my very best wishes.
Finding strength to cope with what you are going through must take so much effort and you must be exhausted. Never compare yourself with others, its a mistake people make to feel they are somehow coping less well than others in a similar situation. Not being able to focus on anything is a classic symptom of the pain and trauma you are going through - its nothing that needs excusing.
Take care of yourself - its not being selfish. All the very best to you and all your family.

Oh merlotgran. Just oh. Unbearably awful for you and your family. Life is so crushingly unfair sometimes.

I'm very sorry to hear about your daughter.

I have no words merlot. You can make sad threads if it helps you get through this dreadful time.

You have lots of friends on gn so use that friendship.

I'm so very sorry Merlot. Love and big hugs to you all.

merlot don't worry about bringing anyone down. You are a great poster on here, have been for a long time, and if anyone deserves support, you do. Keep giving us the chance to be with you in this in a small way.

Merlot I am so sorry to hear your news. I completely understand how you cannot concentrate on anything at the moment. Our children are the most precious and remarkable achievement in our lives. I just hope you have the strength to get through this awful challenge. My thoughts are with you, your DH and your wonderful daughter.

merlot Thoughts and prayers are all I can offer, but they are sincere