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What I can’t do (well) but can do better.

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Calpurnia Sat 06-Mar-21 16:16:58

I know we all have different abilities which makes us the lovely unique people we are. I do believe, however insignificant, we all have talents - some useful others not so.

I would love to hear what abilities or not GN’s have -

I am pretty useless with the internet- scraping along the bottom really... but.... I can soothe a crying baby to sleep in a very short time and am a dab hand with a sewing needle - how about you ?

GranEd Sat 06-Mar-21 18:29:39

I’m okay at knitting ? but apart from that my main skill is as a bodger so if any of you have any outstanding jobs you want doing/messing up I’m your go to person. ?

Calpurnia Sat 06-Mar-21 18:39:39

I’m good with washing and ironing - can get most all stains out but have terrible co-ordination so ballroom/line dancing out of the question.

Tizliz Sat 06-Mar-21 18:39:55

I am good at wine tasting ?

Jaffacake2 Sat 06-Mar-21 18:42:43

I can't sew, play tennis or any other sport apart from swimming. The garden is just lawn as I can't keep flowers and plants in bloom. Hate computers, love reading.
But I could resuscitate you and deliver babies !!

wildswan16 Sat 06-Mar-21 18:48:24

I'm hopeless at sewing, baking and cooking. I can't remember a single poem or song. I can't keep plants alive.

I am good at being patient, not panicking, putting things in order, not buying stuff I don't need, not spending too much time-wasting on GN!

kissngate Sat 06-Mar-21 18:59:30

I thought I was useless at everything but after reading this thread realise I do have skills:
I'm great at online ordering.
Excellent tester of chocolate.
Wine tasting is another skill.
Also extremely good at fast reading, can manage a book in two days.
Being boring my admin and finance skills are good, I'm pretty good at dancing and I'm excellent at getting around London on the underground. But that's it.

Blossoming Sat 06-Mar-21 19:00:37

I’m not sure if I’ve understood the thread title, but here goes.

I am extremely good at designing, developing, debugging, installing and teaching enterprise software. Some people don’t have the knack for it. I’m not being boastful, no time for false modesty, I climbed high by the time I retired.

I make beautiful jewellery as a hobby. This is quite an achievement with my impairments and I admit I feel quite proud of my creations. I do it for love of the making, I sell the finished pieces for charity or give them as gifts.

I am crap at running, walking, climbing, lifting and anything that requires a fully functional body, but I keep trying ?

BlueBelle Sat 06-Mar-21 19:03:23

I can sing or play and musical instrument I m no good at sport can’t remember jokes
I can do some crafts a bit of painting and drawing, I can touch my toes with flat hands on the floor and can do a full lotus can touch my forehead with my toes
I can garden I can apologise for England and I can take the blame for everything

BlueBelle Sat 06-Mar-21 19:13:56

That should have read I CANT sing or play a musical instrument

I can’t proof read either

Missfoodlove Sat 06-Mar-21 19:28:59

I can cook.
I’m good with technology, stain removal, and logistics.
I am not very patient and rubbish at ironing.

foxie48 Sat 06-Mar-21 19:37:10

I am totally outstanding at being "average", there's nothing I can't do moderately well. I have spent my life being reasonably competent.

LauraNorder Sat 06-Mar-21 19:42:59

In my early career I was useless as part of a prosecution team but later found I was very good at defending. Seems I have a natural empathy with the scallies of this world.
I hope I’m a reasonably good wife, (as long as not much is expected of me).
I think I’ve been a good mother as my boys seem to like me.
I’m a loyal friend and have friends from schooldays.
I can draw well, wish I could paint.
I’m expert at procrastination.

BlueSky Sat 06-Mar-21 19:51:14

Can’t sew (apart from the proverbial button).
Can and do organise everything and everybody!

farview Sat 06-Mar-21 19:53:13

Good at ...gardening, d.i.y, driving, treasuring friends, being a mum&grandma (told so often) feeding hoarders (normal times) being a dinosaur (4yr old hurricane said so) holding tears in(re my overseas children/grandchildren)..keeping confidences.
Bad at ..sewing,crafting,knitting,...patience (with H)....budgeting (rubbish) stopping smoking ☹....doing anything with my curly,thick,totally messy hair.....applying makeup...looking tidy ?....cleaning windows....

farview Sat 06-Mar-21 19:53:54

Hoards not hoarders ?

Lyndylou Sat 06-Mar-21 22:27:02

I'm pretty good with pc type skills, spreadsheets etc and I keep a very close eye on budget and bills, but I am rubbish at filing paper bills, they sit around in little piles until I have a clearout. But in my defence I am very good at spending money. hmm

I'm good at diy painting and wallpapering just getting worse at getting up and down step ladders.

Definitely getting worse at getting up in the morning and then from the sofa at night. My sofa has developed a bum groove over lockdown, it will swallow me up like a sink hole soon.

nanna8 Sat 06-Mar-21 22:50:56

I can’t change a tap washer or do anything to do with a car, including cleaning it. I can’t snorkel anymore, I think I am going to drown and I can’t ride a bike anymore because it gives me backache and I wobble.
I can knit, sew, write and cook and do a bit of gardening but I avoid chainsaws.
People tell me their secrets, I used to be a social worker so that’s not surprising. I never divulge,which is also not surprising because it is totally drummed into us.

Callistemon Sat 06-Mar-21 23:52:19

LauraNorder

Apparently I’m good at disrupting.

???

I'm fairly mediocre at many things - is that better than being excellent at one thing but useless at all the rest?

I am persistent but is that a skill or an inherited trait?

cornergran Sun 07-Mar-21 02:24:15

Procrastination in the face of admin is my biggest skill. Otherwise I’m good at detail, organising, being persistent, I have an eye for colour, can breathe life into poorly plants, am good at listening to teenagers, baking when I motivate myself, ironing, biting my tongue and fence sitting. Very good at hanging on to the tv remote and sitting doing nothing, just looking.

I definitely have no skill at drawing or painting, singing, nursing (Mr C is feeling poorly and will vouch for that one!), running, climbing hills, mechanical things, patience when things that should work, like the washing machine, don’t work, tolerating noise, finding things I put somewhere safe, talking to people I don’t know, being in a crowd, staying away from chocolate.

I know how to change a wheel on a car, my Dad insisted I practice before I drove on my own more years ago than I care to think about. Because I can it doesn’t mean I would!

CanadianGran Sun 07-Mar-21 06:06:49

I cannot, and never could do a cart-wheel very well. Yeast never behaves properly for me and always end up with heavy tough rolls or bread.

I cannot draw people, but can draw birds quite well.

I can dive quite gracefully, and give wonderful raspberries on toddler's tummies.

LauraNorder Sun 07-Mar-21 10:39:25

Oh I’d forgotten that talent Canadiangran, can’t wait to blow raspberries on toddlers tummies again. Just hope it still has them giggling now they’re a year older.

sodapop Sun 07-Mar-21 12:35:29

I'm so relieved to see that there are others who are not good at craft, cooking etc and other housewifely things. Talking to friends and acquaintances I thought I was the odd one out. grin

grandmajet Sun 07-Mar-21 12:47:18

Grandpajet is great at breaking things he is trying to mend! He has the ‘I’ll just bash it a little bit harder’ approach.

He thought our rotary drier was broken last week as he couldn’t put it up, although he used all his considerable strength. He ordered a new one from our local Handicentre. I then said ‘was the wire wrapped round the arm’. He looked quite blank, then I showed him how to untangle it so it would go up easily! Blushes at the Handicentre - er, we don’t need it now!

Lucca Sun 07-Mar-21 13:01:32

farview

Hoards not hoarders ?

Hordes. Sorry, couldn’t resist.

Lucca Sun 07-Mar-21 13:05:01

Urmstongran

I can’t sew or toffee. I don’t bake, craft cards, knit or garden.
I’m trying to think what I am good at....

Being a mum, grandma & a friend I think, says she modestly.
☺️

I can’t do those things either. Not so much a domestic goddess as a domestic earthling.

Can’t sing, dance, draw. Can’t organise money or understand it either.
Can play tennis but not well, ditto bridge.

I can speak a few languages. Used to teach well and can make people,laugh.