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Reasons to be cheerful in lockdown

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Masquereader Fri 01-May-20 09:51:15

What keeps you going? One of the things I miss is meeting in a cafe for coffee and a sneaky cake, so I try to have good coffee, and I've started baking again, so there's usually something in the tin - nothing complicated: all-in-one cake, traybake, something like that. What's your treat to yourself?

Seefah Sat 02-May-20 11:48:47

This is going to sound silly but my baby mini tomato plants ! I haven’t grown anything from seed for years, never had the time. Each day watching them grow bigger and stronger is very inspiring since I’m stuck in our city flat and miss the countryside where our shambly old holiday house is. Tomato plants and silly tiktok stuff from my daughter ! She is a fizzy fountain of humour. I also love no planes in the sky ! But whilst weepy for others suffering I can’t say I am. In fact hubby and I realised our life isn’t very different to usual and we’ve become very reclusive! Sounds awful but we’ve got the perfect excuse not to meet up with certain people. Maybe we’re not normal.

Gwenisgreat1 Sat 02-May-20 12:02:54

Getting shopping delivered, often with surprise substitutes - Marigolds instead of disposable gloves, white chocolate instead of milk. An extra tin of coffee (someone will have gone without!)
The delight at having an afternoon tea delivered this pm courtesy of my DDs, for a birthday tea!

Coconut Sat 02-May-20 12:06:14

Am loving baking with my DD and trying new recipes as usually she does not have time, even DGS joins in. Eve been scouring Pinterest and have found some fabulous stuff. My other 4 DGC all send me photos too of what they’ve cooked.

homefarm Sat 02-May-20 12:07:11

I'm not dead.

GabriellaG54 Sat 02-May-20 12:11:53

Cleaning and exercise makes me feel on top.
I like reading, baking, tidying the small courtyard and sleeping when absolutely everything is done. I don't crave company.

annifrance Sat 02-May-20 12:40:02

No clock, or even day, watching. Times my own and I get on with interesting things without interruptions. Lovely walks. Hearing birds, crickets, bees, babbling brook, cowbells and silence. For an ex party animal I am surprised I am so laid back about it.

Joesoap Sat 02-May-20 12:57:43

As I have mentioned earlier we arent in lock down just have a few restrictions,we meet as a family outside in the garden, well away from each other but it will be nice to hug everyone.
What I am really lopking forward to and the thought keeps me going, is to be able to travel again!

sarahanew Sat 02-May-20 13:16:33

Reason one - I'm alive!

I am in contact with friends via social media even more than I used to be in real life

I'm a key worker and my job allows me to see and interact with real life humn beings face to face

Irenelily Sat 02-May-20 13:17:42

Bizzle, at least we haven’t got bombs dropping on us - as in the war - and Dad, Husbands and Sons risking their lives, so we can count our blessings!

Brigidsdaughter Sat 02-May-20 13:33:12

At home with DH and DS (24) so appreciate we have it easy.
I like this feeling of stepping off the world and it's treadmill for a while. No commitments other than meal planning.
Time for reflection.
TV at night with DS. No missed evenings as were always home. Watching series after series. It's so companionable and hell be gone soon enough.
Walking the dogs again with DS.
It's the simple things in life

knspol Sat 02-May-20 14:42:01

Since the very start of lockdown I've slept like a log. The very best continuous nights of sleep I can remember. Usually have real trouble falling asleep and get a good night every 3 or so days but not so now. May be going to bed perhaps an hour or so later but getting up as usual and instead of feeling worn out I actually feel awake. Fingers crossed the sleep continues once this is all over.

katy1950 Sat 02-May-20 14:47:50

Looking up at a clear blue sky no planes

Alioop Sat 02-May-20 15:07:31

When I hear a knock at the door & my friends have left me chocolate or a lovely cake to enjoy. Sweethearts.

AlisonKF Sat 02-May-20 15:20:36

Being very safe alone in my cottage, as usual, in a rural area. Knowing that my two sons and their families in other parts of the country are fairly OK.
However that doesn't stop me being sad and angry about all the people suffering undeservedly across our vastly divided and unequal society.

Minerva Sat 02-May-20 15:21:30

Happy Birthday Gwenisgreatl. I wish I could join you?

flaxwoven Sat 02-May-20 17:10:40

My daily walk keeps me going, noticing all the white and purple lilac in flower, the cherry blossom, the different flowers in gardens, birdsong, and so grateful to be retired and not having to worry about jobs like so many people. Not bothered about holidays. I like my home and my own bed.

mrsgreenfingers56 Sat 02-May-20 17:14:57

I'm grateful I haven't got Covid 19.

elisha123 Sat 02-May-20 18:19:54

Lock down is important to save our lifes. but what only the problem for poor people with out food

Flytothestars Sat 02-May-20 18:27:06

Totally agree with Tanith ?

Polly4t42 Sat 02-May-20 18:32:39

That all my family are safe and well
That I have hobbies and unfinished projects
I have 3 bookcases full of books I can reread though I’ve read on bookcase full since lockdown.

Aepgirl Sat 02-May-20 20:26:54

Going for my ‘allowed’ walk and being greeted by others with a friendly ‘hello’ instead of just being ignored.

merlotgran Sat 02-May-20 20:30:52

A great day in the garden. That always makes me cheerful.

FarNorth Sat 02-May-20 21:10:54

Indeed, Irenelily.
I wasn't around during the war but a friend told me she always woke up with the thought "Oh good, we're still alive.".

Ohmother Sat 02-May-20 22:55:02

Being in lockdown with my DH makes me grateful. Yes; we’ve had our disagreements but most of them have ended in laughter. He ‘gets’ me where as some others don’t. We are actually getting on better than usual because we’re both aware we have to.

My neighbour has experienced controlling behaviour from her DH during the lockdown and I, together with an appropriate agency, am supporting her the best I can until she has the real freedom to leave if she decides. What an awful situation to be in.

This wonderful weather seeming to make the dawn chorus even louder and my playing of Cat Steven’s Morning Had Broken as I take my early walk is a true blessing.

Hang in there guys!! ?

overthehill Sun 03-May-20 00:18:28

I do like holidays but find it stressful thinking what to take clothes wise. Being home if looks cold and you put on appropriate clothes then it turns warm no problem all your clothes are there at hand.

Also as an IBS intermittent sufferer going away or even going out can be a worry but indoors np worries at all