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They fuck you up your mum and dad (Phillip Larkin)

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Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 19:31:56

Shall we discuss favourite poems?

I like this one. smile

Drum1234 Sun 08-Sep-19 20:26:11

Funeral Blues by W H Auden is one of my favourites, especially as read by John Hannah in Four Weddings and a Funeral. And These I Can Promise by Mark Twain. I was asked to read this at my niece's wedding and had to draw on all my acting skills not to blub half way through!

MawB Sun 08-Sep-19 20:26:26

In defence of Mum’s and Dads everywhere,

They tuck you up, your Mum and Dad
They read you Peter Rabbit, too
They give you all the treats they had
And add some extra, just for you

They were tucked up when they were small,
( Pink perfume, blue tobacco-smoke )
By those whose kiss healed any fall
Whose laughter doubled any joke

Man hands on happiness to man
It deepens like a coastal shelf
So love your parents all you can
And have some cheerful kids yourself.

- Adrian Mitchell

Hetty58 Sun 08-Sep-19 20:27:30

I love this one. (So many other potential paths we could have taken!)

The Road Not Taken

BY ROBERT FROST

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 20:27:39

I love that MawB! grin

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 20:29:08

* Hetty58* I absolutely adore that one!

Love Robert Frost.

M0nica Sun 08-Sep-19 20:30:02

lessismore it is a hymn lyric so counts as poetry. I will not risk a link after my problems above, but the hymn is: Father, hear the prayer we offer words by Love M. Will­is, in Tif­fa­ny’s Month­ly Mag­a­zine, 1859. It ap­peared in Hymns of the Spir­it, by Sam­u­el Long­fel­low & Sam­u­el John­son, 1864, where the text was mo­di­fied con­sid­er­a­bly, prob­ab­ly by Long­fel­low.

Must be poetry Longfellow was involved.

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 20:31:31

There is some beautiful poetry in hymns. Shame if they fade away.

Beautiful music too.

Lessismore Sun 08-Sep-19 20:40:05

Isn't it strange how you can carry around lyrics or poetry in your head?

Riverwalk Sun 08-Sep-19 20:41:03

Because I could not stop for Death
Emily Dickinson

Because I could not stop for Death--
He kindly stopped for me--
The Carriage held but just Ourselves--
And Immortality.

We slowly drove--He knew no haste
And I had put away
My labor and my leisure too,
For His Civility--

We passed the School, where Children strove
At Recess--in the Ring--
We passed the Fields of Gazing Grain--
We passed the Setting Sun--

Or rather--He passed us--
The Dews drew quivering and chill--
For only Gossamer, my Gown--
My Tippet--only Tulle--

We paused before a House that seemed
A Swelling of the Ground--
The Roof was scarcely visible--
The Cornice--in the Ground--

Since then--'tis Centuries--and yet
Feels shorter than the Day
I first surmised the Horses' Heads
Were toward Eternity--

M0nica Sun 08-Sep-19 20:43:56

Maw, that version is wonderful - and so true.

seacliff Sun 08-Sep-19 20:47:30

Thanks Monica. That is charming.

I like your version www.ling.upenn.edu/~beatrice/pangur-ban.html much better than the English translation by W. H. Auden, see below:

Pangur, white Pangur, How happy we are
Alone together, scholar and cat
Each has his own work to do daily;
For you it is hunting, for me study.
Your shining eye watches the wall;
My feeble eye is fixed on a book.
You rejoice, when your claws entrap a mouse;
I rejoice when my mind fathoms a problem.
Pleased with his own art, neither hinders the other;
Thus we live ever without tedium and envy.

seacliff Sun 08-Sep-19 20:49:22

I love that Maw, much better.

PamelaJ1 Sun 08-Sep-19 20:49:40

I am PJ1, I was referring to gonegirls other thread.
Sorry boosgran was sooo upset.?

felice Sun 08-Sep-19 20:49:41

The Listeners by Walter de la Mare, I learnt it in Primary School and still love it and remember every word.

SueDoku Sun 08-Sep-19 20:53:52

Maw I attended my old (both in age and in time ago) next-door-neighbour's memorial service recently, and one of her AC read that poem - substituting 'JR Tolkien' for 'Peter Rabbit'. It was obviously a very special memory for him and his siblings...

Sara65 Sun 08-Sep-19 20:55:22

Another Philip Larkin, Born Yesterday, really makes me cry

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 20:59:40

Lessismore I think,with hymns, we can carry them around because we learnt them as children. #treasuretrove

Sara65 Sun 08-Sep-19 21:03:29

Gonegirl

My little grandson came out is school singing ‘when a knight won his Spurs’ he was amazed that I knew all the words, so was I for that matter, took me right back to Sunday School, where it was my favourite hymn

boheminan Sun 08-Sep-19 21:04:08

..."I have spread my dreams under your feet,
tread softly because you tread on my dreams"

from W.B. Yeats 'Aedh Wishes for the Cloths of Heaven' sends shivers down me spine...

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 21:05:08

Oh yes! The Listeners. Walter de la Mare wrote some good poems. The Listeners

M0nica Sun 08-Sep-19 21:05:58

I first read this poem when I was 8, learnt it by heart, so that I would never forget it and I have asked to have it read at my funeral:

Requiem (Robert Louis Stevenson)

Under the wide and starry sky
Dig the grave and let me lie:
Glad did I live and gladly die,
And I laid me down with a will.

This be the verse you 'grave for me: 5
Here he lies where he long'd to be;
Home is the sailor, home from the sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.

GagaJo Sun 08-Sep-19 21:07:29

Gonegirl, sneaky. LOL

SO many poems. This is just one I love.

Blackberry-Picking BY SEAMUS HEANEY

Late August, given heavy rain and sun
For a full week, the blackberries would ripen.
At first, just one, a glossy purple clot
Among others, red, green, hard as a knot.
You ate that first one and its flesh was sweet
Like thickened wine: summer's blood was in it
Leaving stains upon the tongue and lust for
Picking. Then red ones inked up and that hunger
Sent us out with milk cans, pea tins, jam-pots
Where briars scratched and wet grass bleached our boots.
Round hayfields, cornfields and potato-drills
We trekked and picked until the cans were full,
Until the tinkling bottom had been covered
With green ones, and on top big dark blobs burned
Like a plate of eyes. Our hands were peppered
With thorn pricks, our palms sticky as Bluebeard's.

We hoarded the fresh berries in the byre.
But when the bath was filled we found a fur,
A rat-grey fungus, glutting on our cache.
The juice was stinking too. Once off the bush
The fruit fermented, the sweet flesh would turn sour.
I always felt like crying. It wasn't fair
That all the lovely canfuls smelt of rot.
Each year I hoped they'd keep, knew they would not.

I LOVE it for all the subliminal 'blood' messages, linking his childhood to the bloodshed in NI.

Gonegirl Sun 08-Sep-19 21:08:47

A birdie with a yellow bill
Hopped upon my windowsill.
Cocked his shining eye and said.
'Aint you shamed you sleepyhead?

(Robert Louis Stevenson. A Child's Garden of Verses}

rosecarmel Sun 08-Sep-19 21:10:24

Atavism / William Stafford

The Draft Horse / Robert Frost

The More Loving One / W. H. Auden

The Country / Billy Collins - below is a link to an animated video accompanied by the reading of the poem-

m.youtube.com/watch?v=8xovLpim_1s

It's one minute 25 seconds .. smile

lemongrove Sun 08-Sep-19 21:10:48

This Be The Verse is a good poem, Gonegirl
But lesser known Larkin poems are even better.The Whitsun Weddings and Church Going, and An Arundel Tomb are my favourites.