Study shows that helping children with homework is detrimental

If by 'help' they mean 'do the homework' then of course it won't help the child! Teachers, despite popular opinion, are not stupid and know if it is a child's own work!

Early tasks (Reception/KS1) suggested by schools to do at home is intended to demonstrate a 'partnership' between family and school and help busy working parents to get to see what is happening in school. If it does not do that, either because school fails to pitch or explain the tasks properly or because parents are over competitive /anxious then it is not doing the job it was supposed to do.

Homework for older kids can be a good discipline but again some helicopter parents cannot let their kids do it alone and some teachers set inappropriate work. I think I am coming to the conclusion that, for older children, there should be school based time for 'independent' work. This could be available for an hour and a half after each school day & overseen by 'supervisors' as at exam time. It would not be compulsory to attend but the completion of the tasks would be. Work could be 'stamped' if it was completed at the independent sessions to inform teachers. Probably happens already in lots of places.

I always sit with DGD when she does her homework. I also assist her by breaking down words when she is stuck on an awkward spelling although she more often than not gets it right eventually anyway. I can't see anything wrong in doing this.

I like the idea of independent study time for older pupils within he school day.

Nothing gillybob! That's encouraging and helping and not doing! I sat with my DGS (Y1) today whose weekly task was to draw a picture of his mum and write an interesting sentence or two underneath about her (linked to school work on Mothers' Day). I chatted to him about what he wanted to write about his mum and helped him decide between commenting on her 'really really curly hair' or the fact 'she has only had 9 real birthdays' The birthday fact won as he said the teacher could see form his drawing that her hair was curly!

I have had amazing illustrations and pieces of work that were obviously not done by children. I tried to say to families that it was not a competition but there are always some parents out there who just can't help themselves!

Should say ' Nothing wrong gillybob'

I don't think there would be time in the school day for that penstemonni. As it is, teachers have a job getting all of the curriculum into the term.

My mother was German and she absolutely refused to give me any help with my German homework on the basis that a) it would be obvious and b) how would I ever learn. I taught DD3 German in the Sixth form so there was no point in helping as I was going to mark it anyway! But I was shocked at how many students handed in work which wa s clearly not entirely their own.

I knew what you meant Penstemmon

My DGS's nursery had an egg decorating competition and the children had to decorate a boiled egg as a cartoon character. Most of the entries were clearly done by the children (with a little help) but some of them were so good that it was obvious that a parent or older sibling had done the decorating. Why would you do this?

I know gillybob It is crazy!

We used to have a Xmas decoration competition and you would be surprised at the dexterity and artistic sophistication of some 3-7 yr olds!!

I once wrote an essay for my OH when he was at uni - the lecturer was so impressed he read it out to everyone. OH eventually fessed up, as he felt so embarrassed - lecturer laughed his head off and said he once got his wife to write an essay for him!

GS6 and I won an excellence award for our Egyption sarcophagus containing a mummy! It was such a chore, especially having to eat my way through a large box of Ferrero Rocher for the gold foil!

DD is still rankled at not winning a plasticine modelling competition at a school fete when she was 8.

Her model was so good that the judge could not believe that an 8 year old could have done it and said it must have been done by one of her parents, so she didn't win a prize.

What was particularly annoying, as she didn't hesitate to point out at the time, was that, as her father had been away working for the 2 weeks before the fete, the only parent who could have helped her was me and my skills in modelling were far inferior to hers. If I had done it she would have been last in class.

shysal just heard my DGD is doing an Egyptian topic next term! I am off to get the chocs now!

I did the sarcophagus for a mummified banana too (with DGD honest)
We bought the gold paper though!