Missfoodlove -- I read the OP "The young lady had been reading the Estrangement thread and was pretty annoyed with us for seemingly (to her) putting the blame on to the Mums, and being very vindictive towards them because (to her) the blame was firmly on us."
So what ExD was looking for was someone on Mumsnet who had read what was written here. And given that Gransnet removed your comment (not by reported by me) obviously someone else found the comment/accusation 'wrong'.
HolyHannah, If you read the OP, it is asking for someone that posted here on Gransnet not Mumsnet. -- The title of this thread is "Lost post from a Mumsnetter. Help!"
I'm not on Mumsnet under any user name as I previously stated. So who is misreading here?
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