I am the mother of 4 grown children and grandmother of 10 grandchildren ranging in age from 4 to 22 years of age. Three of my children remarried and had more children, hence the age difference of my grandchildren. Of course, I went crazy when I had my first 4 grandchildren, but by the time the other 6 arrived, I was overwhelmed. Eight of my grandchildren are very respectful and mannerly, but 2 of them (girls aged aged 4 and 7) are very rude, disrespectful, and will not mind. The oldest was removed from 2 different child care facilities for spitting, biting, etc. and is currently in counseling for her behavior. I have informed my son of their behavior when we have kept them overnight and dealt with this type of behavior. My son acknowledges her behavior and informs us she is in counseling. My daughter-in-law (DIL) has always defended them and informs us that they are both "gifted" and their behavior is that of a leader. We have stopped having them over for sleepovers, but do still continue to have the others. The last few times we have seen these grandgirls, they have been obstinate, rude, won't acknowledge us and if they did, it was to inform us they wanted to spend time with "their family". It is obvious that my DIL has made negative statements about us. This is very upsetting to me, and I feel like I should do something and try and repair this situation. My husband thinks we should leave it alone because our past attempts have made no difference. Do any of you have grandchildren like this and if so, how do you deal with it?
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