lol. I am 5 feet tall quite old and quite fat with a super king size duvet but have never had any problems and don't use any other devices etc. When I visit friends or family members some of them ask if I would mind changing their duvet cover as it honestly takes me less than 5 minutes to remove one and replace it. I think the key is to make sure the cover is a perfect fit for the duvet, and that if it is rectangular that you insert the duvet the correct way ie short /long edges matching . I lay the cover on the bed, right side up, and right side out, with the top at the headboard end and make sure I have the quilt the right way around. I grab tight on to the two top corners of the duvet with my left hand and put it all inside the cover heading for the top middle, still holding tight. . At the same time with my right hand I get into the top right corner of the cover. I then place the right corner of the duvet in there and leave it, whilst I then place the top left corner of the duvet into the top left corner of the cover. I then move to the foot of the cover where the buttons/studs usually are, and providing the duvet isn't twisted, simply place the two bottom corners of the duvet as far as possible into the two corresponding corners of the cover, grab these two bottom corners on the outside through all layers of duvet and cover and then shake as hard as you can to spread the duvet evenly within the cover. You shouldn't need more than 2 big shakes. Then button/stud the cover. I appreciate that not everyone has the strength to do this. If you aren't able to do big shakes then its ok either do smaller shakes or a few smoothing out actions with your hands. No full day windmills necessary ( that sounds suspiciously like an excuse to lay about on top of bed all day tbh ) , or pegs, clips, contortions, etc. And def no husband involved it would be complete carnage. Its taken me longer to type this than it would to change it, honestly. good luck to you all though !