Three years ago my partner used my computer as his was not working, to do what he called some highly urgent emails. In the process he accessed some highly confidential correspondence, some to his detriment. I am not sure how he came upon this as the emails were in separate folders not the inbox. (He was behaving very badly at the time and his sister and I were emailing each other about it). I never heard the last of this. Now he is demanding to use my computer again to complete an 'urgent' email - despite not having got himself a proper computer during all these years, just a slow tablet. (He has been working on this same email all week and I mentioned a very good source of reasonable laptops). He told me on Friday he needed my computer, though I need to use the computer myself for work today. In order to help I said he could use my little Chromebook and went out and bought a mouse for it as he said he couldn't use the touchpad. He then told me that the mouse wasn't a good one and that I had paid too much for it (£7 - out of my pocket). When I tried to set him up to use the device I wanted to put him in as a guest user, signing out of my own account so he would only have access to his own emails not mine in order to preserve my privacy. However he had forgotten his password and refused to re-set it as he said it would endanger his own email access. He is now cursing and swearing at me and accusing me of having things to hide as I really don't want him having free access to my private mail again. I have said I would help him change his password and then he could use my Chromebook as long as he wants but he says he will wait till after I am in bed and use my computer and account. Am I being unreasonable in denying him access? It would lead to a terrible blinding row.
Passports not in the drawer I always keep them in. Turning the place upside down.