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Tights, forgotten how uncomfortable they are!

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Lizbethann55 Thu 29-Jul-21 18:24:10

I have just come back from a funeral. This has meant for the first time in years I have worn a dress and the dreaded tights. I had forgotten how uncomfortable they are! I am rather overweight ( size 16 / 18). I never know whether to go for pull everything in ones, or let it all hang loose ones. Then they roll over at the top and slide down at the crotch. Pulling them up is undignified and usually means I stick my finger through them. I am at a wedding on Saturday so have to go through the whole tight wearing scenario again! Any hints or advice anyone? I even contemplated wearing knickers over my tights!! Thank you. Xx

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henetha Mon 21-Nov-22 23:29:46

Tights are the devil's work and one of the reasons why trousers/jeans are now so popular with women. Imo

Oreo Mon 21-Nov-22 19:35:20

JaneJudge if he sat admiring the flowers in that get up where I live he wouldn’t be safe.

JaneJudge Mon 21-Nov-22 19:32:30

I don't think it really matters as long as he is wearing underwear or clothing that covers the crotch area if not

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Oreo Mon 21-Nov-22 19:28:45

Catterygirl

Used to work for Wolford tights. Best job ever, not to mention the freebie tights and better still the clothes. We often had a fashion show in the office. I still buy their tights in Selfridges sale as they last a minimum of five years. I was in charge of complaints and people sent back crumpled tights obviously over 20 years old.

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Wolford tights were the best ever!
I used to have loadsa tights in different colours.I have opposite probs to OP in that I’m thin and tights wrinkle and don’t stay up well these days.Tend to wear jeggings and leggings and socks now.

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Oldab Sun 15-May-22 20:06:51

I Hate Tights ,if i had to wear them then it would only be Sheer Tan colour ..But i just stay bare legged ..My daughter wears those Thick Black Tights ..Opaque's you call them ..? all the time ..100 Denier !! Horrid !! although i do find good use for them , she hands them over to me , i cut them up and use them as long length strings to tie up my bin bags ..i can really pull tight the string which compresses the bin bag allowing me more room in the main Bin to put more rubbish in.

Catterygirl Tue 15-Mar-22 23:41:34

Used to work for Wolford tights. Best job ever, not to mention the freebie tights and better still the clothes. We often had a fashion show in the office. I still buy their tights in Selfridges sale as they last a minimum of five years. I was in charge of complaints and people sent back crumpled tights obviously over 20 years old.

Shinamae Tue 15-Mar-22 23:23:06

I don’t like my legs at all and I have big flat feet as well ?so I live in jeans and trousers,the last time I wore a dress was at my daughters wedding six years ago and that was a long dress not worn one since. Anyway I have no need for tights or stockings just wear socks… I think the last time I wore tights would’ve been in the 1980s…

Callistemon21 Tue 15-Mar-22 23:20:37

The wedding was last year!
Hope it went well, OP and your tights stayed up.

I reported your post DisneyTaylor

Not at all helpful and very unpleasant with what is happening in Ukraine.
I hope you're ashamed.

Callistemon21 Tue 15-Mar-22 23:16:22

And choose more expensive ones with lycra as a larger size in cheaper ones might wrinkle like Norah Batty's.

Callistemon21 Tue 15-Mar-22 23:14:30

JaneJudge

well MissChateline the wedding is on Saturday so I don't think she has much choice other than having to chop her own legs off. It has been ignored for years that women have been getting taller. Tights are ill designed at best, as are bras

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There's a chart on M&S tights packs recommending which tights to buy for size and height.

You need a size larger, I think, if you're over 5'5"

As far as I remember - I really dislike the blooming things.

Jane71 Tue 15-Mar-22 22:31:38

Haven't worn tights for ages, but when I used to I did the same as Jane43 and wore a pair of control knickers over the top. Perhaps its a Jane thing?

Jane43 Tue 15-Mar-22 17:58:54

I agree with Shelflife. I used to wear a light control panty girdle over tights and ordinary pants underneath.

Shelflife Tue 15-Mar-22 17:50:51

I wear trousers all the time ! Or if really necessary a maxi skirt. If you must wear tights Lizbethann do go for the knickers on top - it helps .

eazybee Tue 15-Mar-22 16:56:43

I love wearing tights, having grown up in the era of stockings and suspenders, even panty girdles. My first pair of nylon tights cost nineteen shillings and eleven pence, and I treasured them.
I have been wearing thick woolly tights under baggy jumpers and skirts or woolly dresses and boots this winter ; very snug.

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Magrithea Sat 14-Aug-21 13:22:17

Probably been suggested but hold ups work, just don't put body lotion on your legs before you wear them!

Or do the school girl trick of putting some 'hold all the 'extra' bits in' knickers over the top! That stops the sliding down and holds any wobbly bits in too!

MayBee70 Mon 02-Aug-21 23:41:16

I need to wear tights because they hold all my wobbly bits in. I suppose that’s why they’re called tights.

Kartush Mon 02-Aug-21 23:06:26

Boyzone

Today 13:04 Kartush

Im sorry but why do you have to wear tights at all, is there a rule somewhere that says you cant go out without them? I have never worn stockings pantyhose or tights and the world hasnt ended. Go bare legged….becdaring ?

Sadly we don’t all have beautiful unblemished legs ?

Oh my goodness Boyzone my legs are the farthest thing from beautiful or unblemished, they are blemished and then some but tights etc are uncomfortable and If people dont like how my legs look they can just look at something else

GrandmaRosie Mon 02-Aug-21 19:35:59

Boyzone

Today 13:04 Kartush

Im sorry but why do you have to wear tights at all, is there a rule somewhere that says you cant go out without them? I have never worn stockings pantyhose or tights and the world hasnt ended. Go bare legged….becdaring ?

Sadly we don’t all have beautiful unblemished legs ?

Agree, my legs are a long way off perfect, so long skirts or trousers in summer, but get my shorter skirts and dresses out in winter with M&S Autograph cotton tights which are amazingly comfortable and don’t give your legs the creepy feeling that some tights do !

Gabrielle56 Mon 02-Aug-21 19:14:45

Wear long skirts/dresses and fake the tan! Or , wear trousers .I either wear maxi length or pants, I haven't worn tights for 15 years Since I gave up work. Maxi can be extremely elegant and tights at so last century!