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Anyone decided to go fully grey from brunette

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HeavenLeigh Thu 08-Dec-22 21:16:57

Never thought I’d say it, but so fed up of dying my hair every 4 weeks, mid sixty’s and just been looking online at the beautiful hairstyles in grey silver and white, and thinking should I just go for it and take the plunge, I have shoulder length Bob, so I’m expecting it to take a good 12 months.

cc Fri 09-Dec-22 18:43:06

My hair isn't a "nice" grey, so I'm putting it off. I have my hair done every couple of months but my hairdresser gives me enough colour to do my roots once or twice in between.

cc Fri 09-Dec-22 18:52:28

"Presumably if you have brunette dye taken off you are left with the natural grey? Who knew?"
I've had colour stripped out a couple of times after colouring that was too dark. The problem is that the hair that isn't grey yet may go orange, as mine did. Effectively you're bleaching it and many brunettes go orange if you do this. Also yes, the dye you've previously used may not come out of the grey completely.
I've changed to a lighter colour - medium blonde - which is actually light mid-brown. It doesn't look quite so harsh as a darker colour. Also it allows a bit of streakiness to show through so looks softer.
As I get greyer I think that the colour looks less natural and I think I'll gradually change to lighter shades applied in a more streaky way. But at the moment I just feel washed out when my hair fades too much.

HettyBetty Fri 09-Dec-22 19:15:18

I went grey quite young, it is a family tradition. I have it cut very well every six weeks and it is in excellent condition, very soft and shiny. I'm lucky to have good skin and never wear make up, just a bit of E45 occasionally as a moisturiser.

I think a good posture and a smile outweigh most things.

GreyhairedWarrior Fri 09-Dec-22 21:48:01

I stopped dying mine when I got to 70 and the face under the brown hair just didn't match. Luckily (in a rather particular sense of luck) it was the height of the covid pandemic and we just didn't go anywhere or do anything for a year, and by the time we got to the end of that I was properly grey. I'm now grey all over with bits getting whiter at the front and sides.

swampy1961 Fri 09-Dec-22 22:01:27

When I was having chemo, I was cold capping so could not colour my hair - as what didn't fall out was very fragile. After treatment finished half my hair was coloured and the other half going grey.
My hairdresser kept trimming it and eventually one haircut I was grey with brown lowlights!! It didn't look too bad - it has since gone greyer with some lovely white highlights in it but still with brown lowlights.
So I'd say embrace the grey - if it doesn't feel right you can always colour it again.

Nannytopsy Fri 09-Dec-22 22:18:17

Instead of dyeing my hair brown, which always went blond, mine was dyed in 2 or 3 shades of grey, so I went grey overnight! Love it and now that my natural colour has come through, there are lots of lovely comments. Go for it!

JackyB Sun 11-Dec-22 10:55:27

I have had grey hair since my early twenties. My hairdresser puts dark streaks in my original colour in (very dark brown). I have it quite short.

Over the years I have asked her to put fewer and fewer dark streaks in as the grey is no longer a problem. It always looks very natural and I am now practically all grey.

So I have gone for a natural progression, just slower than nature intended.

BlueBalou Fri 30-Dec-22 06:28:29

I stopped dyeing mine 20 years ago (I’m 69”, it was such a faff because my hair grows very quickly)
I’m very happily a pure silver fox 😊

HeavenLeigh Sun 08-Jan-23 17:19:09

Good on you bluebalou

Oldbat1 Sun 08-Jan-23 18:04:15

Trouble is I started to go grey in my 20s then I had it professionally coloured for at least twenty years but the gap inbetween colouring became less as it needed doing every few weeks. I just bit the bullet when 50 and went grey with no regrets and it only needs a cut every 6wks.

Fleurpepper Sun 08-Jan-23 18:09:46

Was brunette and now been salt and pepper for quite some time. I did have streaks for a few years to 'soften the blow'.

Lucca Sun 08-Jan-23 18:10:49

Kate1949

Embrace the hair full stop. You don't know what you've got til it's gone.

👏

Lucca Sun 08-Jan-23 18:14:49

I stopped having mine coloured at 60
It went a really nice silver

The.n I got cancer and had chemo. it has grown back mostly and the short hair suits me but the fringe won’t grow properly and my hair is now curly !

So listen to what Katie 1949 says !

Oreo Sun 08-Jan-23 20:08:00

I would go grey if it was necessary as I can’t be bothered faffing around with hair dye, or the cost of it, but my brown hair has very little grey in it as yet.
What others say such as getting grey highlights or streaks put in is a good idea if you want to hurry up the process.

LRavenscroft Sun 08-Jan-23 20:57:04

I think the secret to letting your hair go grey is to make sure you have a really good cut, style it well and let nature do the rest.

Mom3 Sun 08-Jan-23 23:43:22

I let mine go grey during Covid. It's silvery white around my face which I like but in back it's more salt and pepper and looks dreary. I have cut it myself after watching YouTube videos and did okay, but want to get a good professional cut. Still concerned about Covid variants so won't do that for awhile. Also trying to update makeup and looking at how-to videos about that and bought new foundation and mascara online. DD commented at Christmas how nice I looked so that was an appreciated compliment.

crazyH Mon 09-Jan-23 00:03:27

I will keep dyeing my hair dark brown till my hands ache…d.i.y. So, not expensive. Grey hair just doesn’t suit my face and colouring. Besides, my boys are a bit shallow. They don’t want their Mum to look ‘old’. Just joking…I’m sure they will love me, regardless. I don’t use any other make-up. Very, very occasionally, I use foundation.