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Interview for step up job- no confidence

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ineedamum Sun 30-May-21 19:30:21

My bullying unsupportive micromanager has affected my confidence and motivation.

I have an interview for a step up job which I'll attend but I usually get the jobs at interview.

I know I have the ability to do the job but lack experience. On paper it looks like I can do the job, but reality is different as Ive been held back.

The job is technical, so I can't bluff it. It will be obvious if I can't do it. I always have a slight doubt and lack in confidence anyway, but this boss has impacted on me. (I'm not the only person).

I suppose if worse comes to the worse I'll be sacked and wont put it on my CV.

Any tips?

Mattsmum2 Sun 30-May-21 19:34:39

I had a similar situation and had to get out of the job I was doing as I was told I was no good at it, primarily due to their lack of meaningful development.
I had an incentive for the interview as I wanted to get away from my awe full manager so maybe just focus on that, I’m sure you will be ok and best of luck xx

ineedamum Sun 30-May-21 20:04:21

Thanks Mattmum2. I think if it was a similar position I'd feel better. The role is to manage people doing my position.

Maybe I'm putting pressure on myself but I'd feel like an imposter.

Mattsmum2 Sun 30-May-21 20:23:18

ineedamum

Thanks Mattmum2. I think if it was a similar position I'd feel better. The role is to manage people doing my position.

Maybe I'm putting pressure on myself but I'd feel like an imposter.

You will be fantastic, just be yourself x

Hithere Tue 01-Jun-21 13:49:08

If you have been given an interview, you are worthy of the position- nobody wastes time on interviewing a no go candidate from the beginning

Nortsat Tue 01-Jun-21 18:34:47

Do you want the role?
If the answer is yes then practice (several times) your interview technique - make up about 6 questions, answer them out loud and watch yourself in the mirror.
Example:
- tell us about a significant success you have had and what the outcome was?
Tell us about a project you worked on which didn’t go well and what you learned from it?
How would you deal with an emergency situation that occurred on Friday evening at 5.45?
How would your team members describe you?

Make notes and revise (as you might for a test/exam).
Try to use practical examples to back up any general statements and show what changed as a result.

You have the interview, thats the first step.
Preparation and practice, is the next.
Then go for it, with all your heart and energy.
Wishing you every success. ☘️

Redhead56 Tue 01-Jun-21 18:49:38

Well it’s obvious you have first hand knowledge of bad management with your present micro manager. When being interviewed think about how you have been managed. When you are asked questions on how you might deal with a certain situation. You could put emphasis on how positive management will have a beneficial effect on the workforce. It will make you appear more confident than you feel and give a good impression. Do yourself proud it’s an opportunity you don’t want to miss.

ineedamum Fri 04-Jun-21 19:28:42

Thanks everybody.

ineedamum Mon 07-Jun-21 18:10:19

I have a second interview.

It's also overwhelming thinking of working in office after working from home. The commute etc as I've got really fit in lockdown.

But having a second interview is a confidence boost no matter what happens

V3ra Mon 07-Jun-21 18:22:59

Congratulations so far! Now for the next step ?

timetogo2016 Mon 07-Jun-21 18:33:07

Your bullying unsuportve micromanager is worried he will loose you.
Therefore put your energy into the interview and show him what you are capable of.
Good luck ineedamum.

DillytheGardener Mon 07-Jun-21 18:43:16

Congratulations on your success for getting to the second interview. Crossing fingers for you! thanks

Hithere Mon 07-Jun-21 18:47:58

That is great! You will excel those interviews and get a great job

ineedamum Mon 07-Jun-21 20:52:37

Thank you.

Redhead56 Mon 07-Jun-21 22:40:12

Well done I wish you success.

ineedamum Fri 11-Jun-21 18:59:12

Had the interview. I'm not sure I want the job even though it's a great opportunity. Being back in the office, commute and being around people is overwhelming.
I didnt even have any questions, i usually have lots. I dont think it was a good interview, but the best I could do for now. I dont want to do any work which is the real issue

Hithere Fri 11-Jun-21 19:01:35

Something more suitable will come your way

ineedamum Sat 12-Jun-21 05:32:40

Thank you.

ineedamum Mon 14-Jun-21 18:26:03

Passed the interview, now the tests.

Hithere Mon 14-Jun-21 19:27:02

Congrats!

varian Mon 14-Jun-21 19:31:21

Well done!

DillytheGardener Mon 14-Jun-21 19:37:11

Congratulations ?

V3ra Mon 14-Jun-21 22:32:13

Great news ?

Puzzled Fri 18-Jun-21 17:33:50

You should be confident!
You have had first and second interview and passed the tests!
That's more than the competition.
They think that you are capable of doing the job, or wouldn't have taken you so far along the selection route!
believe in yourself.
This is your chance to do the job in such a way that suits the company and most importantly, YOU.
You will be in a position to make changes that will make the job better for you, and for those who work for you, and so for the company. This will make you more valuable to them

AND, the icing on the cake, you will be away from, possibly equal to; or Joy of of Joys, superior to your old unpleasant nit picking old boss!
Tomorrow is the first day of the better rest of your life!

GO FOR IT!

ineedamum Sat 19-Jun-21 06:13:29

Thanks puzzled.

My job is technical, which I also don't feel confident in due to bully.
The next step is the technical test, hopefully it will be easy, but whatever happens I've done well.