Whatever happened to teaching kids to self soothe and to entertain themselves once in a while, so their mother can take a break? What's wrong with teaching them to be independent and resourceful adults? When or how can they learn to solve problems and face challenges if someone is always on hand to solve problems for them? ....and dare I mention coping with failure, when everyone gets a prize just for showing up? If there is a forgotten lunch or history book, a parent will even take time off from work to deliver their 'buttercup's' forgotten item. Homework is another story...don't even get me started there...and then of course the endless bedtime routines, sharing parent's bed etc. etc. It's called 'helicopter' parenting and even my own grandchildren are victims of this heinous practice. Likely my own children are compensating because they were raised by hubby and me which is tantamount to being raised by very kind,loving, but no nonsense, disciplining wolves. Having said that, all three are high achievers, very successful, well adjusted adults, so I guess we did something right. My grandchildren will have to learn the hard way, as I must bite my tongue. Thankfully, I can vent through this forum, so excuse my rant, and thanks for listening.