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Close the door and give me just one minute with this 'man'.

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Marelli Wed 08-May-13 13:50:49

While I was at a village Community Police and Council meeting last night, my daughter was being attacked as she walked home from a self-help group with her friend. She was shot at close range by a BB (?) gun at least 5 times, in her thighs and lower back, as she turned away to protect herself. Apparently a BB gun is a gas-propelled pellet gun. The perpetrator wore a balaclava and demanded their bags. DD told him that they had no money on them and he just shot her. Just like that. Her friend was uninjured and was able to dial 999 as the attacker ran off, and when the police and ambulance arrived she was able to give what description she could, to them.
DD is in hospital, on an anti-biotic drip as the pellets could have been infected by his hands as he loaded the gun. 3 of the pellets will need to remain in her thighs as they are too deep to remove.
My DD has already had to deal with so much emotional stuff over the years, and just when she was attempting to get her life back on track by going to her self-help group this b.....d comes along and does this.
So....I really don't think I'm being unreasonable to want to have a private minute alone with him. One minute would be all I'd need. angry

inthefields Wed 08-May-13 21:03:47

How appalling. I am so sorry for you and your dayghter.

YANBU ..... and I will be happy to hand you the baseball bat.

Deedaa Wed 08-May-13 21:05:58

What an appalling thing for you Marelli Can't imagine he will get half what he deserves but perhaps the police can at least get him off the streets.

NfkDumpling Wed 08-May-13 21:33:17

And I'll bring the scissors.

Mishap Wed 08-May-13 21:48:46

I am shocked by this and can understand your fury - if anyone did this to one of my daughters I would be incandescent with rage - how dare he?

I am so sorry that you and your family are having to deal with such a dreadful experience.

dustyangel Wed 08-May-13 22:17:04

Marelli What a terrible thing to have happened. I feel so sorry for your daughter and hope she makes a speedy recovery. flowers to you both.

Nelliemoser Wed 08-May-13 22:50:29

marelli We still want to protect our children from danger when they are grown up. However impossible we know that is, it still hurts us horribly when we can't. I hope she recovers soon. (((hugs)))

Granny23 Wed 08-May-13 23:47:06

Oh Marelli I've just seen this and am horrified like everyone else. Sending ((hugs)) and best wishes to you both and wishing there was something positive we could do for you, but we are all left feeling threatened and helpless in the face of such random, wanton badness.

Marelli Thu 09-May-13 03:45:34

Granny23, you have all done so much by sending all these kind and supportive posts. flowers.

Bags Thu 09-May-13 05:43:56

I think worry about this has kept you awake, marelli sad. More hugs. flowers

glassortwo Thu 09-May-13 07:41:50

marelli I didnt get back on GN yesterday to see how DD was, I hope she will get home today [{{hugs}}} flowers

Marelli Thu 09-May-13 09:07:19

I've been awake for most of the night, I think, Bags! My battery ran low on this, so I had to give up on it and try to sleep after about 5.30 and I slept for a couple of hours, and have woken up in fighting - not weepy - spirit. Today I will have to pass on the bus, the area where the Police Incident Van is, and that might make me wobbly. However, hopefully this will encourage witnesses to come forward.
glass, I think DD will definitely be home today. I'll pass on all the Gransnet hugs to her. She's bound to feel better after all of that. flowers xx

Bags Thu 09-May-13 09:11:01

Your mother-adrenalin will keep you going and strong for your daughter, marelli, but don't forget to take care of yourself too flowers

Thistledoo Thu 09-May-13 09:12:33

Marelli I am sure all GNs will feel the same as me on reading this awful story, SHOCKED. Hope your daughter comes through this terrible ordeal ok. Did the police catch this dreadful man? Sending you and your daughter healing thoughts and love. flowers

annodomini Thu 09-May-13 09:48:09

I hope your daughter feels physically better though she will be very traumatised as are you. She will need you and it's going to be hard to stay strong. Do look after yourself, marelli. Thinking of you both. ((((hugs))))

j08 Thu 09-May-13 09:49:49

flowers Marelli (And for DD too)

Bags Thu 09-May-13 09:57:10

marelli, you and your dd are in soop's thoughts too.

Grandmanorm Thu 09-May-13 12:11:06

Marelli I have just seen this. How dreadful. flowers to you and your daughter. I too, like the others would want one minute with him.

whenim64 Thu 09-May-13 12:15:00

I hope things are a bit brighter for you and your daughter today, Marelli smile

Grannyeggs Thu 09-May-13 12:46:03

(((Hugs))) to you and your daughter, what an appalling thing to happen. I hope she is feeling better today.flowers

Notso Thu 09-May-13 12:50:04

Thoughts still with you Marelli smile

gracesmum Thu 09-May-13 13:26:27

Hell hath no fury like a mother defending her young - is what I was feeling after reading your dreadful news. I hope that today and the days to come will bring some sunshine back into your lives. Many hugs to you and to your DD and sincerest wishes for the future. flowers

Marelli Thu 09-May-13 13:39:18

They've caught him and also have found the weapon. He's 19-years-old and will appear in court tomorrow.
DD still in hospital on anti-biotic drip but should released sometime today.
Thank you all so much for your posts. it really does mean a lot. flowers

Ana Thu 09-May-13 13:42:12

Thank goodness they've got him, Marelli! Hope your DD recovers well - you both deserve some TLC after such a horrible experience. flowers

whenim64 Thu 09-May-13 13:53:57

Fantastic news, Marelli. I hope he is dealt with throughly, and you and your daughter can feel some sense of relief now. flowers

Notso Thu 09-May-13 14:02:31

Excellent news....rest a bit easier now. flowers