DIL needing advice off a Gran.

Congratulations - enjoy your lovely little family and do not expend too much energy worrying about situation with MIL.

Focus on your own lovely family. One day, when you become a mother-in-law (and it does creep up on you eventually!), you will know how NOT to do it!

Congratualtions and thank you for coming back to tell us the good news. There have been comments on the past about contributors with a problem, advice from members and then no more is heard so you never know if things have improved or not. Delighted to hear your news - may your new baby bring you much happiness.

Congratulations Redheaded Enjoy her, its nice you have given us "feedback"

Thank you! She is an absolute stunner (but im biased she is pale, dark brown hair and blue eyes!

It is MIL's loss. She is missing out on so much. When confronted she turned it all back onto us, blamed us and said some pretty vile things to my DH, who has done everything for her. He used to pick her up/take her home once a week, he'd take her shopping..all sorts.

Thats was abit of a rant, sorry! DH is free to have a relationship with her but I think he has given up. I really wish things was different.

Just enjoy your own little family Redheadedmommy, many congratulations


Her loss!

Congratulations! Many, many families are far from, peace, harmony and light for all sorts of reasons, the previous posts have some good advice but I would just like to add that we can never change another person but we are in charge of how we react to their behaviour and by not taking it personally we can have far greater peace of mind and not be affected by others negativity.

The reasons for her behaviour and attitude may never be clear - even to her herself - what matters is that your own family is not negatively affected.

YaYa sums it up perfectly.

YaYa you sum it up perfectley.

It just makes me so angry. There are nans here who have been dinied contact for no real reason who would love to see their grandchildren...then there's her. Who have family, who want her to have a relationship with them and she can't be bothered. She is so lucky and she has no idea.

Ive been told she is Toxic, ive googled it and she fits the bill.

*denied